Posts Tagged Kim to the Rescue

Losing a loved one

May 22, 2008 / 71 Comments

UPDATE:  My dad’s mom, my Nana, passed away Thursday and her funeral is tomorrow. I hear you, Christy, and I know all too well how you feel.

Dear Kim,  (The following was first published on Thursday, May, 22)

I love you and your family so much! I saw your show today (LOL). Y’all are going to make Khloe go crazy! But it was funny and you’re right: She does need someone to share her life with… no matter what she says! LOL!

Well, I know you are so sweet and full of advice so… I had a sister pass away a little over a year ago. She lived a tough life and she eventually ended up committing suicide. It was so tough for my family and I just can’t learn to deal with it even after a long year!! I know you had to deal with the loss of your father so I was wondering if you had any tips to help me with this??

Thanks and love you so much :)

Christy

Much ado about rhinoplasty

April 4, 2008 / 139 Comments


One of my readers is seeking my advice about plastic surgery. You may be surprised by my answer. Watch my video here!

Would you ever go under the knife? And under what circumstances? Let me know in the comments section!

Dating outside of your race

March 28, 2008 / 137 Comments


One member of my site has been confronted with an issue that has definitely hit close to home for me in the past. I have learned how to navigate the situation when a loved one is not necessarily thrilled about my choice of boyfriend. Watch my video as I give advice on how to deal with loved ones who need to accept that you are dating outside of your race.

How to deal with playa playas

March 13, 2008 / 26 Comments


Need to know how to handle a player? Watch my video as I answer Tiffani’s question about a guy she likes.

Are Two Guys One Too Many?

February 26, 2008 / 17 Comments

A Kim Fan Writes:

Dear Kim,

I’m a good girl, and I’m honest and loyal. But somehow I’m dating two guys right now. Dan is very feet-on-the-ground and a hard worker on a great career path. He worships me. The other guy is a bit of a bum, but he’s very into spontaneity. He makes me feel super alive!

Do I need to tell Dan about the other guy? The other guy doesn’t really mind that I have Dan. I feel I should be able to have both these guys because they meet different needs. It’s not like we’re married.

What do you think?

Signed,
Double Trouble

Is forgiveness a blessing or a curse?

February 26, 2008 / 25 Comments

Dear Kim,

Three years ago, I had a nightmare relationship with a man who cheated and took advantage of me financially. I’ve moved on and have forgiven him. It wasn’t really his fault, and he’s made amends since. The problem is that my fiancé brings up this past relationship whenever he wants to question my judgment. I’ve told my fiancé that he hurts my feelings when he throws my past in my face. How can I make him stop?

Signed,
Paying for the Past

Interfering Parental Units

February 26, 2008 / 47 Comments

Dear Kim,

My parents don’t trust me to choose my own boyfriend. Did you ever have this problem?

Signed,
Plagued with Pushy Parents