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1. alahnys  |   Posted on Oct 31st, 2011 isnt that scott or who is it?? Reply

   • angiemaria29  |   Posted on Oct 31st, 2011 its johnathan (her best friend) Reply

2. boi8921  |   Posted on Oct 31st, 2011 Dear Kim, I have such an ache in my heart to get married, to be treated as an equal and a human being. I realize there are greater problems in the world than equal rights, however when someone whom is in the spotlight decides to take advantage of a right such as marriage and throws it back in the faces of the people and fans that wished Chris and you the best of intentions my soul is torn. It hurts because you treat marriage like a cheap piece of clothing only worn once and tossed aside. I think and feel that the friends around you, some in the same situation as I, will help you realize that life is not at all about materialistic things, but about caring for human kind as a whole. I guess I am disappointed that marriages can last only months for some, but are a yearning of a lifetime for others. You and Chris seem like intelligent individuals that want the most out of life, well this could be your platform to speak up, and put your grown up pants on and use this social media frenzy to advocate for equal rights. JUST A THOUGHT ~!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Reply

3. nekofoto  |   Posted on Nov 2nd, 2011 Kim, I think you should date Jonathan… you too have a lot in common. Just a thought ;) Reply

4. gossipgirl980  |   Posted on Nov 2nd, 2011 Kim can’t date Jonathon…he’s her best friend and the person who is always there for her. She can’t risk that ever changing. (in my mind anyway) Reply

5. sugarsugar  |   Posted on Nov 4th, 2011 Hello Kim, I once was married for less than 72 HOURS. Found out he was having an affair with his ex, the mother of his baby. I ended it before even opening up the wedding gifts. I know how humilliating having to face the ‘fans’ and tell the truth on my little level. I can only imagine how traumatized you have been during this ordeal. But IMO, you’re doing what you need to do for youself and your brand. I know the feeling of getting caught up in ‘The Wedding’ plans. It’s so exhausting and such a distraction from deep feelings of fear and anxiety. I recall being aware that I could pull the plug on the whole thing, but still didnt feel safe doing that. Going through with my wedding was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. But I have never regretted ending it. I could only think about 10 years later possibly with 3 kids and a liar husband, and that would have really been a mistake. So I broke it off the day after our wedding. I think you have so much courage to expose your good, bad and ugly to the world. (Mostly good.) This will only make you stronger and more comfortable within. You will know more of what you really want and strengthen your ability to see RED flags and resist them. Your mother is doing a great job with ‘damage’ control and prepaving your way back to reality. Haters can’t sustain their level of venom for long. So for now, hold your head up and breathe deeply when if you start to panic, and stay strong. You’ll be alright. Oh, I agree with mama, keep the ring girl, you had to put up with a lot of crap during those wedding plans. Reply

6. knyh9356  |   Posted on Nov 5th, 2011 Kim, First of all I would like to say how sorry I am to hear of your split from Kris. Life is too short to live unhappy and sometimes we have to “face the ugly facts” to live the happier life! I had a short term marriage of 9 months, we were High School sweethearts, …. married him 14 years later. Nine months later, packed all his clothes and belongings and threw them on his mother’s lawn AND I would do it again if I had to. I learned a lot from this — from changing my own locks to filing my own divorce papers. Amazing what one can do when one “has to”. My mother and I became best friends through all this. My dad who was always happy for what we had accomplished also told me it’s ok to make mistakes and move on with my life. My friends were all supportive and I remained close family/friends with my sister-in-law, brother-in-laws, nieces and nephews. We always say that I got them as part of the divorce! I was your age when all of this happened. At 30 I think I was trying to be an adult but at the same time, loved being young! After all of this, I know I had become an “adult”! I learned not to worry about what people think or say behind my back. They are usually the ones that ‘don’t have a life’ as they are way too busy putting their nose in everyone’s business. I learned that my happiness is what matters. Your true friends will respect you more because you have shown that you have more respect for yourself. My best to you as you get your life back on track. It won’t happen overnight but you will feel so much better about yourself because you have taken those first steps. Hold your head high and live life to the fullest! P.S. Etiquette says the ring is property of the “girl”. It’s considered a “gift”! Reply