Wow! Getting married at 19 is very young. Trust me, I know! I realized you just don't know yourself yet at that young age! I am a completely different person now than when I was 19, even different than I was five years ago. I really don't condone getting a divorce but for me it was what I needed to do to be healthy and get out of a situation that just wasn't right for me. I was young and went against my parents, too. Although they didn't disown me, they were very upset with me! I stayed in the relationship to prove to others that I was going to make it work! That wasn't for the right reasons. I'm sure if you expressed interest in wanting to get out of an unhappy situation, your family would come back and help you! I have definitely realized that when you think your parents are being harsh and unfair, sometimes they are right and you are too young and inexperienced to realize what's going on. It's worth a shot of reaching out! If they still don't support you, then you need to be true to yourself and realize you made a grown up decision to get married and if you want out, you need to make a grown up decision to get yourself out of it on your own! You can do it! You got married on your own and you can get out of it on your own. Just be strong and follow your heart! Life is too short to be unhappy!

Be strong,
Kim


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Hi Kimmy,

Congrats on all of your achievements. I think that you're a great person with a big heart. I've recently come across an interview you did back in 2007 and you mentioned that you married young and learned from your mistakes. I got married when I was 19 and I'm 23 now. I've been married for nearly four years. Though I've chosen to marry against my parents' will, I don't remember the last time I've been happy with him. I've learned we have so many differences and I am struggling to get out of this marriage. I don't know what to do. My parents have disowned me, I've got no love and support from my family, so I would really appreciate your input on this. You're my idol, and I wish I can one day have the courage and strength you had to move on with your life and put your mistakes behind you. Love you heaps... AND PLZ REPLY TO THIS. I'LL FOREVER BE GRATEFUL!

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When fans need you you can be so wise and comforting. You are a good person Charlie Brown!!!

Hey Kim!
I've met you before in Minneapolis Aqua and I must say you are so gorgeous!
Could you tell me what your daily routine is as far as skincare and make up go...
What cleanser and creams do you use and what brand of make up and how do you apply it....
Thanks so much and stay gorgeous!!

Waaw! i just visit your sight for the first time in a while, and wat a surprise you responded to my plea for advice. I think i sent it AGEZ AGO...but hey THANKS SO MUCH KIM. Really appreciated your honest advice. And thanks to everyone else who left me a comment. Things are looking up for me now...got a job offered to me in UK...so hopefully this is gonna be where we split.... Jst cant wait to move on

KIMMY!....ur awesome, and i wish you every success...you deserve it babygirl

Cheers,

I couldn't have said it better myself! <3

Hey Kim!

First off, I think you're gorgeous!! I'd like to ask a question in your column but can't figure out how! Lol! Is there a link somewhere or how do I post a new question?? Thanks!

Kim is on the D-List so she have to keep herself in the spotlight.

GREAT ADVICE!! I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO MAKE A MARRIGE WORK!
I'M 20 YEARS OLD AND I GOT MARRIED AT 18 MY HUSBAND IS IN THE U.S COAST GUARD AND SOMETIMES IT'S TOUGH AND I WANT OUT,BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY I LOVE THIS MAN AND I WILL SUPPORT EVEYTHING HE DOES! WE HAVE NO KIDS YET SO I THINK HAVING A KID AT A YOUNG AGE IS ANOTHER FACTOR TO GETTING DIVORCE SO YOUNG AND SOON! BUT ITS YOUR LIFE TO MAKE GROWN UP DECISIONS AND WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY DO IT!

XOXOX


If your gonna hate get out of this website .. if you hate kim so much why are you wasting your time on this website??? mind your own buisness and let people live their lives.. like kim said life is too short to be unhappy!! this website is for her fans ((WHICH I SO AM!!)) so go to another website haters! ILOVEYOU kimmy that advice was great!! trully inspire me to be strong from my recent break up from my long term boyfriend!

PLEASE READ!! Everyone really needs to RELAX! first of all, Kim and Adrienne are not doing anything different than every other celeb doesnt do ALL THE TIME! thats the Business!!! HELLO?! have we all forgotten that there would be NO celebrities at all without publicity to them? Every celeb from Hilary Duff to Jenna Jameson does this, so i dont see y everyone is SOO surprised?

Lastly, I dont blame Kim or Adrienne for this at all.. you know who is really RETARDED? Johnathan Jackson! He is a publicist, that is his JOB. His job is to get celebs publicity whether its good or bad.. but he is supposed to keep it secret. Isnt that the dam point???????? Instead, he betrayed his clients and blogs about their business deals to make HIMSELF famous. He is really bad at his job. not professional at all..

So, you just have to accept celebrities for wat they are. Kim is gorgeous and no matter what her motives really are, she happens to be in the spotlight because YES she put herself there. WHO THE HECK CARES?? i'll keep watching her because i think she has great style and is interesting to watch.. thats all folks

MELISSA noone can turn from being a #1 fan to hating Kim with so much passion, so tht leads me to believe that Melissa is psychologically very unstable, not only that, but it means u never REALLY liked Kim in the first place

Wow! Everyone seems to have gotten married young (I am 24). I just got married May 24 of this year (I was 23 then) so I'm pretty much a newlywed but unlike many of you here my husband is in Iraq he got deployed July 7. It's tough being married to practically a ghost I can't touch him or see him but. So I would tell you "Anonymous" to get out of that relationship NOW or you're just gonna end up getting hurt more than you already are. When we got married everything was like in the fairy tales with prince charming and everything then BAM I get pregnant and things change but soon after that I had a miscarriage (It was a little boy that I named Elijah) and I went into a depression and it's tough because my husband isn't here he's half way around the world fighting for OUR freedom. So I sit here and tell you to fight for YOUR freedom be who you want to be and not have to be with someone that you don't love.

well you looked better than any of the other dancers I'm as old as you Dad he would say you are who you are be proud do not get knock up before you get married I love you very much do not give your body to all of the guys you think you would marry do not have sex before you get married ok hugs and kisses we care about you soo much

GET OUT NOW!! Before you get pregnant or something else interfers with the way that you feel. Sometimes at a young age we act within the moment instead of looking at the future and that is a part of still growing up. I have been with my husbnd since I was 14...First loves in high school, we have went through HELL and to be honest I have never been happy. He doesn't know the person I am and we are very different, but we have 2 BEAUTIFUL daughters and it hard to walk away from a relationship when kids are involved. I would say look at what you want and how you feel and make a desicion. No one has to live your life, but you and that should be your primary focus...YOU! Good Luck.

so true so true! hands down! to everybody positive comments.

Well Said, KIM!!!! The last part of your advice is very true and we all should keep that in mind in everything we choose to do in our live!

Stiletto Vixen -- I think you're right on about them being racy but not racy enough for her to put her career on the line. Maybe she did see the fame Kim has found, and she wanted some too. Little girls know who she is, but like you said, a lot of older people don't.
To me, I just don't see why it's such a big deal. I guess everybody is different, but it's not that crazy to me...
xoxo

I would like to respond to the girl who wants out of her marriage and asked Kim for advise. Hon, I think Kim said it all. Your still young, you have to do what your heart tells you. Once you pull out of the marriage, heal yourself and take some time, then begin to heal the relationship with your family.

As I said, Kim said it all. I wish you the best of luck, and remember: To Thine Own Self be True. Take care hon. Be good to yourself.

I didn't want to believe the Adrienne thing either yes she is famous but only by those that know the cheetah girls and her association with Kim. You can ask someone else and they would say who????I can see her wanting to boost it up a bit. I think she may be tired of being type cast as an innocent school girl she is much older than the other two. She was very smart in not allowing the pics to be too risky. So her job is probably still safe. But I can believe that she would release them. I hope its not true but its not impossible either. Especially since she is around kim and kourtney so much and they are seen as sex symbols and she may want to be seen in the same light. case in point you never know so you can laugh as hard as you want to by how pathetic we all sound to you. Like we care.

I wonder if kim is even gonna do a post today??!!!!!!!!!! haha!!!
DING DONG THE WITCH IS DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmm. How about that you are pregnant Kim! Go to the store and browse through the different prenatal vitamins! Or....go to a baby store and buy some baby clothes or that book "What to expect when your expecting." or you could go to that magazine stand you are always at and buy Parenting.

...someone needs a little medication...*cough*...kim's ex #1 fan melissa*cough*

TO NOV. 12 10:06:

YOU DONT SOUND VERY INTELLIGENT SAYING THAT ADRIENNE USED TH NUDE PIC. SCANDAL TO MAKE HERSELF FAMOUS. 1.) SHE DIDNT RELEASE THOSE PHOTOS THEY WERE LEAKED 2.) SHE DOESNT NEED TO DO SOMETHING TO MAKE HERSELF FAMOUS BECAUSE SHE ALREADY IS FAMOUS & 3.) INSTEAD RELEASING NUDE PHOTOS OF HERSELF & BEING TALKED ABOUT NEGATIVELY, IF SHE WANTED THE WHOLE WORLD TO BE ABLE TO SEE HER NAKED, SHE WOULD JUST DO FUCKING PLAYBOY. THAT WOULD BE THE SMART THING TO DO BECAUSE SHE WOULD MAKE MONEY OFF OF IT. & DONT GET ME WRONG, IF SHE DID PLAYBOY SHE WOULD BE TALKED ABOUT NEGATIVELY TOO, BUT AT LEAST SHE WOULD GET PAYED FOR IT.
HONESTLY YOU DONT THINK LOGICAL.

I have interest in her, or at least did. Now I'm just interested in what she has to say. Anon 10:06-Very true!

...and if she does, she'll still have you all talking about it...just like she wants...

kiki : success has your name all over it.....you go girl!!!

WELL I THINK KIM WILL CALL THE PAPPAZRAZZI TAKING PICS OF HER COMIN OUTA THE MEN'S BATHROOM AND SHE'S GONA START THE RUMOR THAT SHE REALLY MIGHT BE A MAN!!!!!!!!

HAHAHHAAHA

Miss Meliss,

Well said! Everyone who is posting on here must have SOME interest or they wouldn't be posting!

I think Kim will address it in SOME form, otherwise all these crazy people are just going to keep posting crazy comments on all of her blogs.
Like I said, I really don't think it's that serious. Everybody is getting all excited, and for what?! Because she supposedly made up a rumor that she was getting engaged? Why is that such a big deal? Maybe I'm missing something, but...
We don't know Kim, and we have to keep that in mind. Some might THINK they know her, but they don't. She's a regular person, just like us, and she'll make mistakes (just like us). Get over it.
Everybody who is commenting right now obviously has some sort of interest in her, or they wouldn't be here. Period.
xoxo

Well Cierra, I addressed you b/c you said, "Omg you all are so crazy!" I was just assuming you were addressing ALL of us

Umm, Kiki, did I address you personally? Didn't think so.

And no I'm not a super fan, but I'm also not getting my panties in a bunch like some of these other nuts jobs who haven't heard anything else more exciting in their lives then the fact that kim is fake. WHO CARES! ITS HOLLYWODD!

Ex Fan Melissa, I didn't even say anything about you lol...but its funny you knew what I was thinking lol.

Cierra, I've never claimed to be a super fan like you, and I don't dislike her either. I knew who she was a long time ago, but still came on here b/c she's entertaining. I'm not being disrespectful so mind your business we're not hurting you or anyone else.

Who cares if she's lying or telling the truth????

these people lie about everything from plastic surgery to their love lives; they lie about their past....so be it!!!!!

we have all gone through some things in our lives we are not proud of.....or have experienced pain we don't want to share with others.....

we all like to protray a rosier side of ourselves in this world....it's human nature!!!!!

She chose to publicize her life......and the picture isn't all so pretty!!!!!so she's gotta makeup sotires as she goes along sometimes.

don't forget , this is show business!

This is exactley what Kim needed to ground her sorry a**. She isnt even talented at anything but shopping!! Every girl shops so wtf!! Its is soo sad she had to sell her s*x t.a.p.e to become famous. Because honestly, how else was she suppossed to become famous? organizing closets and doing ebay auctions?? PLEASE!!!!!!

Yeah I see your points but I think she will address it its got the blogs going too much, and her rep is at stake and she cares about her rep so much. I think she's just thinking of what and how she is going to say it. The off the cuff blogs that aren't written days before take a while lol.

Kiki what the fu ck is your problem, serioulsy? ANYWAYS....


This is from November last year, anyone remeber this PR stunt Kim pulled?LOL! www . insdier . com

Kim Kardashian, our reality TV star was signing autographs could be on her Playboy Magazine & later realized she had her valuables stolen from her bags! One of them was her digital camera - wonder what type of photos she has on it. Hopefully nothing rated R.
(( Before boarding a Delta flight to Las Vegas at JFK International Airport, the reality-TV star had her laptop, digital camera and $50,000 worth of diamond jewelry, including a Cartier watch, stolen out of her bags, sources close to Kardashian told E! News.


photos provided by PR Photos

The thievery allegedly occurred when Kardashian and her sister Kourtney, being trailed by the usual assortment of paparazzi and wide-eyed fans, stopped to pose for pictures and sign autographs for several Delta employees in the airline’s terminal.

Kardashian apparently noticed that some of her pricier things were missing after the crowd dispersed. - as reports by E!Online

The Kardashian sisters come in all different sizes, don’t they? Have you watched their Reality program on MTV: Keeping up The Kardashians? Interesting family indeed.

I GOT MArried when i was 18 , got pregnant when i was 19, im 23 years old, me and my hubby have been through many ups and downs ever since we met i was 16 and he was 17 years old, imagine your father not liking your boyfriend, making your life just impossible , yes i was young but in my case i am very happy that im still with the father of my son, i know there is many women that dont have that luck, i recognize that too young like i was at the age of 18 is not easy to get married you still have our whole life ahead of you, but you have to keep on going and like kimmy says life is toooo short , to be unhappy!! live life to the fullest!!! Good luck to all of those that have confronted situation like these.. May god bless you all now and forever!!!:*

Speaking of Schizo...

I posted it earlier:


OMG! There are a bunch of websites reporting today that Reggie and I are engaged! The reports spread far enough to the point that both my publicist and Reggie's Saints publicist called to congratulate us!


OMG KIM! REALLY?????

Kim, That was great advice you gave her..hopefully some of the ppl that read this blog can learn from this because a lot of girls think getting married at a young age is cool..I cant lie ive thought about it myself but then most of the time it doesnt work out..Well anywho Good advice Kimmie..

Love ya!!

Yeah shu please spare us the after school special. Many people addressed the blog how long can people really discuss this girls life without knowing all the details. We said it was good advice and moves on. These are current details of what is going on today with Kim its her blog so we are open to discuss it. Who cares if the show is fake? no one really cares they just care that Kim and others try to push so much that it isn't. Someone who creates the drama but hates the drama doesn't make sense to me. She's always saying she wants to get away from the drama but is "allegedly" creating it in the same breath. Please. They'd be idiots if they portrayed their real lives on tv???? THEY DO! so whats your point. I guess your calling them idiots then.

Hey Shu I've already succeeded sweetie, and now I've got nothing left to do lol.

Who CARES if the show is fake??
Just enjoy the entertainment.....and move on!!

It's called a show!!!!!
They would be idiots if they portraid their real lives on national tv !!!!

Kiki 9:24am - I'm amazed that some people actually believe that reality shows including "KUWTK" are real. You are right, it has nothing to do with them, it's part of business.

It's all about business people!

hey guys, the perspective was to help some girl with her painful love issues....what does this have to do with Kim's life??


Who cares what happens in her love life?
or what she does to hang on to the man in her life???

This was about some girl who posted a problem in her marriage!!!!

Get your nosy behinds back to class and stop sounding so immature!!!!snooping around a celebrity love life wont help you succeed in life!!!

I'm almost sure something will post because this post is taking a while she usually has something up already by this time.

Jen 9:17am - Why did you think the Kardashian reality show was not fake? It's a reality show and they have to be entertaining and also have drama or no on would watch.

I've always thought the show was fake. Nothin against her, all reality shows are fake. Remember the chicken thing? Who does that? And they went back the same day lol. Poor chickens.

hopefully you have learned to wisen up in the love department and you had to go through this experience to grow.

Had you listened to your parents, maybe you would make this mistake in some other way,time, or place in your life.

You are still very young and more chances will arise.....love is much deeper than just a feeling it gives us. it is more complex and complicated....it adds to the challenges of our lives.....

love brings out the best in us, just know that when you are in love and you and your partner are not at your best, it is not love.........and you gt yourself out!

Yeah I would be annoyed too. Plus now she's expecting it and it wont be as exciting now when he actually does, or if he does. She ruined it for herself. That sucks.

Kiki your right it is lol. and yeah i agree with the pressure part don't pressure him into doing that also her reading the bride magazines at the kiosk stand was to amp that up even more. She should not rush it it's only been a year and a half same time and me and my BF. I think she should give it time if they both want to really badly then that's one thing but pressure?? not cool that only leads to resentment later down the line. All of the hint hints would drive me crazy.

the show must be fake as well. kim u are so FAKEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

IF SHES FAKIN IT IN REAL LIFE THEN HER SHOW MUST BE A FAKE. I WILL TELL ALL MY FRIENDS ABOUT THIS. KIM U LOST A FAN!

The only people looking desperate are the ones coming on here asking for Kim to explain. You guys need grow up and stop being so consumed with "celebrity life." You do not know these people, therefore, no ones owes you an explanation.

It doesn't matter if you did not listen to your parents........the failure of your marriage had nothing to do with their disapporval. There are many cases where the parents disapprove and the marriages work.

You followed your heart and unfortunately it was short-lived. sometimes it is best that we take our lessons the hard way

I wonder what kim is gonna say to this?!!! Haha, I can't wait!!

Sorry didn't mean to post twice. My computers being weird

Stiletto Vixen I completely agree with you...again lol. Kim is doing THE MOST with this publicity thing. Its is really weird that she came on here to defend a rumor that she started. Its actually kinda creepy, almost schizophrenic.

Stiletto Vixen I completely agree with you...again lol. Kim is doing THE MOST with this publicity thing. Its is really weird that she came on here to defend a rumor that she started. Its actually kinda creepy, almost schizophrenic.

Is the "Ray-J & Kim" sex video up here? If not...can anyone tell me where to find it? Thanks.

no not all kathleen. it was just mentioned and i wasnt tyring to imply anything you fuc king cu nt. you are reading WAY TOO MUCH INTO MY COMMENTS SWEETY. go take your fuc king pills you nut job. lol i cant wait to see what you have to say to this. damn i love this game. u idiots go for the bait everytime!

LOL Dominique what rock did you just come out from under?? lol just teasing girl that is what we have been talking about since yesterday scroll through the comments and you will see.

I AM NOT PASSING JUDGEMENT UNTILL I HEAR BOTH SIDES. I MEAN WHY SHOULD EVERYONE AUTOMATICALLY BELIEVE JONOTHAN? I AM SURE THAT HE IS JUST TRYING TO DO WHATEVER TO COVER HIS BUTT ALSO.

Hey Kim,
I am not trying to start anything, but did you know that on MSN there is a picture of Adrienne posing in her bra? Did this picture get put on the enternet by mistake? Why would she do something like that if she is on the Disney chanel? Hopefully she gets whoever did this to her. It is not right at all.

Good point...IF this is true. I just like to hear both sides to a story before i judge

Oh ok Kathleen. well yeah Kim is my girl and all but this specific situation makes her look a bit foolish mainly because of the way she defends herself constantly so if this isn't true for whatever reason she should clear it up.

Congratulations..your going to college. Something I have already done with my business degree from ASU. Were you implying that others on here dont go to school or are not educated? i hope not.. Stiletto Vixen..I wasnt trying to imply anthing except the fact that the reality is people love coming to this site...yet they are so quick to turn when "Kim said she was gonna do this...but didnt" "Kim has people posts her blogs for her" "Kim was in Boston so how did she post her moms dinner pictures"...those were the kinds of things i was trying to get my point across...that maybe people should realize shes still human..despite this image everyone makes for her...and yes i know..the image she makes for herself...

kathleen are u not worrying about what i write as well by responding your idiot. your crazy. i never said she doesnt put her life on display for us, for petes sake she blogs everyday AND has the fake 'reality' tv show. she does entertain me with this site, but u know someone said if there werent a comment section on here it would be boring aint that the truth. i love arguing with you brown nosers. it passes the time at this pathetic desk job i have that is paying for college.

Yeah Kathleen. I still like Kim and all but i disagree with you on the part about almost every celeb creates rumors its one thing to create rumors and another to create rumors and then defend those rumors as if others are evil and haters when the source came from you! that's twisted. I was saying before that everyone was ruining her moment for her for when reggie actually did pop the question by making up engagement rumors but now to find out it came from her. Its like oh come on. I don't hold Kim to any high standard she is human like the rest of us and every other celeb. but she is also one of the most defensive people and to find out that she is defending her own rumors is just weird. She will create a whole blog on stuff and play victim. Yes she includes us on her life and details but that's what she is famous for its not like she has a dozen movies out and gives us her life story on the side. She is famous for reality and having cameras follow her everyday life her blog is just an extension of that and another way to make money so don't make it out like she is doing us personal favors.

well Anonymous-freak. Be intelligent for just one second a re-read what i said.. i never said she was a role model or morals or anything like that so you need to check yourself before you start talking like a psycho. What i said was that its ashame people like YOU actually put everything into this girl the way you do. I never said she was my role model or anything like that...what i said is that for a fact she actually allows people into her life so of course there are going to be those who hate her...and those who dont. I personally could care less of either because i know that a celebrity is never going to turn into a best friend like everyone hopes she would be. But for a celebrity...i said...she just a pretty damn good job of trying. She puts her life on this website for all to see...and this girl is intelligent because she laughs all the way to the bank...with the love... and the HATE ;) p.s. stop worrying about what i write and worry about why u are on here if you despise this chick so much....

I think that everyone that comes on here...fan or not..because we are all entitled to our opionions....need to realize something. What other celebrity do you know that has a website like this one...where fans know EVERY aspect of her life? This girl puts EVERYTHING about her out there for the world to see...yet people still turn around and say...well how did she post that if she was supposed to be here? Are you serious? WHO CARES WHO POSTS THESE BLOGS. who cares if someone deleted a comment. You all ask for so much yet you forget that she is only one person. Of course she has help. Get over it. At least she is giving you something to obvously entertain yourselves with all day. Next time you question how real or fake she is just get onto this website. It will show you she is as real she can possibly be because she DOES want her fans in her life...if she didnt this site wouldnt exist. And for the record every celeb does publicity stunts...and thats a fact. You "TRUE FANS" just cant seem to realize that.

anonymous 6:22am - Why are posting this old Q&A twice?

Hi Kim, I really liked your response to Anonymous. It's true that regardless of how mad family can be, if you reach out to them, chances are that they will be there. Family is the only people who will always be there. They're not like a friend with a grudge, but will always help if you reach out, so I think that was great advice to have her give it a try. I would add, that pride keeps people from doing the right thing. If she puts her pride aside, admits to her family that it was a mistake that she had to realize on her own because otherwise she may have gone through life thinking he was the best thing and her family made her not get married to the love of her life, then that would've resulted in resentment towards them forever, especially as the years went by and she became unhappy with others she'd make him out to be bigger and better. But now she knows for herself he is not right for her. People have to realize that they can't take things personally if someone doesn't follow their advice, because we only learn through experience, not by hearing others preach to us!!
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Wow Kim I didnt know that you were married before. My boyfriend told me that and I was like, I know everything, how did I not know that.

Im glad that you were able to overcome that situation and find someone who genuinely cares for you as you strongly emphasize that Reggie does.

Much love,

:)

Wow! I guess I must have grown up in a different time. I cant recall too many people getting married so young when I was around your age. I am not against two people who feel they are in love, to getting married. However, I do feel that sometimes without certain values and morals many young couples use a marriage as a out for personal reasons. There was an episode on Tyra recently regarding young couples getting married. You could probably find it on you tube or her website. My advice also would be to not let yourself go, understand what makes you happy, get to know yourself, and dont let anyone take that away from you. I sympathize for your situation. Remember that the more you prolong your unhappiness, the more miserable you will become. In addition, who knows what could happen. If he is as unhappy as you are, infidelity could become a out for him or you, the possibility of bringing a child in a uncompromising environment, etc. I would recommend that you talk to someone that is a lot older than you and is married. In fact I would talk to several people to find out their take on the situation. However, you are the only one who can make the best judgements, and know what you need to do. Your best advice is your own, when you use your mind instead of your heart. This is my prayer for you, to find happiness and for He to place you where you need to be in life.

HI DARLING!! THIS IS TRULY REALLY GREAT ADVICE. I HOPE THAT THIS MAKES IT EASIER FOR THIS PARTICULAR FAN TO MAKE HER DECISION AND I WISH HER THE BEST. IF ANYTHING THIS SITUATION WILL MAKE A PERSON STRONGER. KIM I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THIS HAS MADE YOU STRONGER AS WELL. YOU NEVER GIVE UP NO MATTER WHAT. THAT IS REALLY INSPIRING. SHARING YOUR PAST WITH US IS NOT ONLY HEALING FOR YOU AS WELL BUT LIFE CHANGING FOR LADIES LIKE US WHO ARE NOW FACING SIMILAR PROBLEMS. THANK YOU FOR ALL THE GREAT ADVICE THAT YOU GIVE US. YOU ARE MY IDOL. GOD BLESS YOU.

P.S - I WOULD REALLY LIKE AN AUTOGRAPH PICTURE OF YOU, IT WOULD REALLY MEAN A LOT. THANK YOU PRINCESS!!

Here is the post of her "engagement" aka PUBLICITY STUNT from 10/14/2008. I just typed engagement in the search box and there it was. You guys say I'M weird?? Kim is weirder and has a major peter pan complex:

OMG! There are a bunch of websites reporting today that Reggie and I are engaged! The reports spread far enough to the point that both my publicist and Reggie's Saints publicist called to congratulate us!

Apparently someone has made a fake Facebook page, pretending to be me, and the page said I got engaged!

Here's an excerpt from Hollywood Bubble's report:


According to Kim’s Facebook, she is now engaged. The duo allegedly went out for dinner late Monday night, and Reggie slipped a ring inside her dessert.
At around 4:35 am PT, Kim set her Facebook status to “Engaged, never put a ring in someone’s dessert, they could SWALLOW IT!!!!”.
By around 5:30 am PT, Kim signed off and said “Kim Going to bed Goodnight!!!”.


Everyone has been calling Reggie and I asking us! It's not true!

I don't even have a Facebook page! Maybe I should get one!

Do you guys have Facebook? MySpace? I do have a MySpace page, should I start my own Facebook page, too?

that was marvelous advice!!

the more I read your blog, the more I like you. I see that you dont condone getting a divorce!!

good for you, I also agree that since the poster got married at such a young age and sees no opportunity of improvement with the relationship, the best they can do is try to exit.

Well done Kim! I co-sign on everything you said

Kim's EX #1 Fan Melissa - you seriously need help! I hope you get it.

Sittin here eatin kashi cereal!....mmmmm.....so good. Yummy.


Anyways, I already send that stuff to Perez Hilton.

Someone else needs to email it to him and then he might post it. I emailed him back in the day when I was Kims fan about the Shanna and Kim fight and he emailed me back and posted. Granted, all he wrote when he emailed me was: Ha! But anyways it might work. LOL - that would be soooo funny.

THOSE PHTOS WERE NOT LEAKED

SASSY..R U THAT PERFECT TO SAY NEGATIVE THINGS BOUT KIMMY LIKE THAT..JUST CONCERNTRATE WITH YOUR OWN LIFE TO BE HAPPY..AT LEAST KIM IS HAPPY WITH HER FAMILY AND OWNS LARGE AMOUNT OF MONEY ..JUST CARE BOUT YOUR OWN LIFE AND STRIVE THE BEST..

pr stunt

What's up bitches I'm back. Good morning from the east coast! I see everyone is still talkin about Kim being fake and having publicity stunts to remain a d-lister!! Ha ha! So funny!


So anyways, I wonder what Kendel and Kylie will end up like. I hope they turn out good, bc I like them.


On a completely different (but refreshing) note: Has anyone read that book Twilight? I heard its good and might read it. All I'm hearing about is this Rob guy on Perez Hilton who so sexy, but I just don't see it. I don't even think Zac Efron is cute. I think Johnny Depp is the finest though. Alright, ta ta, I gotta go eat some food and get off the computer. This thing is addicting, so is arguing with a lot of you! ;)

adrienne bailon is turning into KIM
As far as Im concerned no one is going to take her seriously. There are up and coming talented Latinas
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Hey Kim,

I think it is so nice of you to replay to a fan who is in a obvious hard situation.

I hope your words will help her and give her the strength she needs to break out of her situation.

I agree with your words. And I am happy to see you telling your fans to respect their parents and not to turn away from them and do everything by them selves. Because it is just the way you said parents just want all the best for their children but sometimes we don´t get it because we are not in their age in their state of experiences,...
and their is nothing more lasting than the love of your family!
Family should always be the place we turn to no matter what!!!

lots of love from Germany
:-* Nala

Hey Kim,

What is up with all the haters? It is pathetic that these people come to your blog to say nasty things when it is clear that they love reading what you have to say. People, people, people if you don't like what Kim is blogging about don't come and read what she has to say for crying out loud. Kim is who she is because she makes herself available to everything in her life. She works hard! Tough shit if you dont get the breaks that she does. Get off your sorry asses then do the work and then if someone wants you opinions you can give it. Which no-one cares about anyway. Has nobody ever heard of the secret? Kim i love ya! Get your people to sensor these things before they post them.

Cheers

Natasha (South Africa)

Hi Kimmy!

Do you still take black wood in your behind and I'd love to see the video if you still do. When your family got OJ off, did that killer stick it in you as a fringe benefit?

Take care,
JockBuddy

Hey kim!!!
I KNOW THIS SOUNDS CLICHE !! but i am your biggest fan...well FROM AUSTRALIA that is. i am totally loving your blogs each and everyday..and im so impressed that as a celebrity like you, you take time to dedicate time to the people who spend being interested in your life...THAT IS great... i am JUST WANTING to ask...when those things happened to you when you were younger...did you always put it In Gods hands? I know that u and ur family are christians..but what denomination are you guys...

please visit my myspace so you know who i am www.myspace.com/roseymiranda

loVe ROSE...ALL the way fron australia...P.S I STRONGLY BELIEVE YOU AND REGGIE will get married XOXO..
i hope I get to meet you one day xo

Kim is rubbing off on that "Adrienne Bailon" girl. She took naked pics on her laptop. now it's all over the net! Way to go you 25+ year old Cheetah girl.

....kim
good for u > ur advice goes a million miles to someone in NEED and if she takes the ADVICE and RUNS with it U MADE someone a BETTER person. Marriage is hardwork > its a 50/50 partnership not A 80/20 OR VICE/VERSA and if it the partnerSHIP ISN'T there then it will never work.... It takes two Adults not two kids... Glad u urself realize that people change from teen and so on as we grow older*** a few of us can admit to that ha ha ... Keep up the blogging wink~~~

LOL, to "Kim's ex #1 fan Melissa"

she claims to be kim's ex fan but she still posts on here. LOL, girl you so crazy!

anyways,

kim, good advice, getting married at a young age is never a good idea. me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years off and on, since we were in middle school, and i'm still not ready to get married yet. we won't even consider getting engaged until we've moved in together. People really need to take time to learn who they are individually before they can make a lifetime committment to another person. good luck!

Kim is Reggie aware of your publicity stunts, if so I am disappointed in him. He has turned into Mr. Hollywood and not Mr. Football. He is so soft he is softer than a sweet potato pie with too much butter.

Really great seeing you Kimmy giving out advice to your fans! Getting married at a young age isn’t easy for sure and an advice from you would mean the world of course!

You’re awesome Kim! =D

If you girls need any advice Dr. laura on AM Radio station (or DRLAURA.COM.), gives good advice. Well, I should say AMAZING ADVICE!! Kim is pretty on, about this subject. But, it is more difficult than just a paragraph.

To the Girls becoming Women: Follow what your parents say. Don't date someone, because you may think there cool, your an idiot if you do. In the long run they'll usually end up being a loser, getting drunk and partying all the time, isn't the ideal hubby.
Take your time and don't be flattered that a guy wants you, be flattered when a guy takes the time to get to know you. If a guy just wants to kiss..etc, don't think its because he thinks your sooo hot and can't help it lol really he just doesn't respect you.
Also, observe how his friends are (you are who you hangout with to a degree).And see if you can picture yourself in the future with him and where you both will be in life.

In the end. There's no one to blame but yourself with the outcome. You asked for it, so you got it! Don't cry and say you never knew..blah,blah,blah you knew him, you just didn't want to believe it! So pick a man with good morals and your own beliefs, and someone that has ambition in life. LADIES HAVE STANDARDS!!
"If you stand for nothing, you fall for anything"
Goodluck GIRLS!

If you girls need any advice Dr. laura on AM Radio station (or DRLAURA.COM.), gives good advice. Well, I should say AMAZING ADVICE!! Kim is pretty on, about this subject. But, it is more difficult than just a paragraph.

To the Girls becoming Women: Follow what your parents say. Don't date someone, because you may think there cool, your an idiot if you do. In the long run they'll usually end up being a loser, getting drunk and partying all the time, isn't the ideal hubby.
Take your time and don't be flattered that a guy wants you, be flattered when a guy takes the time to get to know you. If a guy just wants to kiss..etc, don't think its because he thinks your sooo hot and can't help it lol really he just doesn't respect you.
Also, observe how his friends are (you are who you hangout with to a degree).And see if you can picture yourself in the future with him and where you both will be in life.

In the end. There's no one to blame but yourself with the outcome. You asked for it, so you got it! Don't cry and say you never knew..blah,blah,blah you knew him, you just didn't want to believe it! So pick a man with good morals and your own beliefs, and someone that has ambition in life. LADIES HAVE STANDARDS!!
"If you stand for nothing, you will fall for anything"
Goodluck GIRLS!

Krafty, go clean Kim's ass with Charmin, ass kisser. Sweetheart, we so not into what Kim blogged about. No one cares for Kim's advice today, we are on something else like her fakeness, media whorishness and publicity stunts. Stick with us on what's going on.

Did I ever say I sided with Kim? No, but I like to see things from all sides. What's your advice for this girl if you don't like hers? That's all I asked.
And if you'd put your name, insted of Anonymous, maybe people would take you seriously.

Awww Krafty, another ass kisser of Kim.

STFU Krafty. Why don't you go find something 'krafty' to do like build an igloo with you in it! POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW !! Right in the kisser !! LMAO !!

Repost b/c my first one didn't go through:

So I'm still not sure why everyone comes here to sound off. If you have a problem with someone that you don't know and have never met, and that person has not done one thing to you...why are you wasting your time?

If you don't like the advice Kim gave, then what's yours?

And if you don't like what Kim does, how she acts, what she says, then don't waste your breath here. It's time in your life you'll never get back.

Kims EX #1 Fan Melissa - lmao ok i forgive you ! that's hilarious though !

Dear Anon 7:35,

I apologize. I was one of those once upon a time (like yesterday).

xoxoxo

lol

RE: Armenian Princess

Are you kidding me? Come from out of Kim's giggly ass ok. What hollywood pressure is Kim under? Let's see, shopping everyday is so much pressure, getting paid to host a party and act like you can dance is so pressure. Yeah right! Please, Kim being under so much hollywood presure is the most ridiculous thing you can say.


oh trust me im not shocked, i knew it all along, it's the naive fans that are shocked lol. you know the fans that would attack someone else for saying that kim loves publicity and fakes stunts around the paps?! lol.

anonymous 7:22pm - This story will not reach those sites because it happens all the time. The only people that are shocked on the ones that are coming on this blog. Celebs plant stories all the time.

wow i am so shocked reading all these comments...i understand some of her fans are angry and perhaps feeling a bit betrayed, but im sure kim doesn't do those things to hurt her fans. we don't know what its like to be under hollywood pressure, but regardless being a fan is UNCONDITIONAL. Saying negative, hurtful comments isn't going to make any situation better.
kim be true to yourself, and remember your true fans love you!

Hasn't this already reached tmz and mto? Kim will attempt to clear this up and say this was a total misunderstading, all "celebrities" do this and "it's no big deal". I can only imagine the blog, a picture or either Kim and Adrienne or Kim and Reggie. SHe is the best at trying to make herself look innocent.

well adrienne got what she wanted because i have never seen her on so many gossip sites as i am now ! so she got what she wanted.

Anon 6:58..........that is SO true! I haven't thought of that before!! Now that I do, you are right!

THE ONLY WAY FOR KIM TO GET PEOPLE TO TALK ABOUT HER IS TO PUT OUT FAKE STORIES ABOUT HERSELF AND THAT'S PROBABLY WHY ADRIENNE DID IT TOO. YEAH IT'S PATHETIC. LOL MAYBE KIM WON'T COMMENT UNTIL THIS STORY REACHES TMZ OR PEREZ OR MTO...LOL SINCE THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS. MAYBE THE MEDIA SHOULD BE SMART AND SHUT KIM OUT AND FOOL HER AT HER OWN GAME !

What a crazy day of comments. When I first heard about the Adrienne situation, I for some reason thought something didn't sound right. My thoughts were that she made this story up. I also found it strange that Kim who is supposedly best friends, homegirls or whatever you want to call their friendship, didn't post anything about this. This is ridiculous and down right pathetic on their part to do this for publicity. Kim havn't you had enough negative publicity in her short life that you should chill out and lay low. With all the craziness that you stir for yourself and poor Reggie, you actually think any man will settle down with you and endure this nonsense? If you do, GET REAL. I am not at all surprised, because this is not the first time and won't be your last time. DOWN RIGHT SICKENING.

What a crazy day of comments. When I first heard about the Adrienne situation, I for some reason thought something didn't sound right. My thoughts were that she made this story up. I also found it strange that Kim who is supposedly best friends, homegirls or whatever you want to call their friendship, didn't post anything about this. This is ridiculous and down right pathetic on their part to do this for publicity. Kim havn't you had enough negative publicity in her short life that you should chill out and lay low. With all the craziness that you stir for yourself and poor Reggie, you actually think any man will settle down with you and endure this nonsense? If you do, GET REAL. I all not at all surprised, because this is not the first time and won't be your last time. DOWN RIGHT SICKENING.

This advice is very helpful, I mean, bottom line - life is too short to be unhappy! Do what is right in your heart! We girls really think we're grown by the age of 18 19 but we're still youngins at that age! LoLl.. I'm 22 and I still have alot to learn, alot of places to go and alot of growing up to do. I've changed so much in the past 3 years, I can only imagine what it will be like in another 3 =)

anon 7:11 - lmao i caught kim's mom saying that too and i was like hmmm why would her own mother call her that? funny.

Kim is shaddy as shaddy gets. What a coincidence, just yesterday on The Insider, her mother used the term "that shaddy Kim".

HMMM OK REMEMBER WHEN MTO PUT UP THAT STORY ABOUT REGGIE AND THAT OTHER GIRL AND THEN KIM PUT UP A BLOG CALLING OUT MTO? REMEMBER HOW HER "TEAM" WAS DELETING COMMENTS LEFT AND RIGHT ALL DAY THAT DAY, BUT NOW LOOK NO ONE IS DELETING A THING LOL HMMM HOW COME??? THIS WAS ALL PLANNED.

lmao for real i do think kim comes here under many diff names and posts comments saying "kim i saw you last night in boston and you were sooooo sweet" lol because i noticed ever since that krissy girl got mad at kim on halloween for dissing her and not taking a pic with her, alot of "fans" have been posting sweet messages about how they "loved meeting kim and how wonderful she is in person". kind of fishy.

^^Too funny! You know she might ahve really done that! I'm not putting ANYTHING past her anymore!!

Curious,

Who knows w her!! Look, the other night, while Kim was in a Boston night club, someone posted on this website. I think it was her Mom's birthday post. She didnt post that one, so who knows when she posted something or when she had someone else do it.

Do you really write your own messages and blog letters or does someone write your letters for you? Is it really you responding? SOme of the things you write do not sound like they would come from you?

hey kim! i love you and your great advice! i was just wondering if it had come to your attention about the explicit pictures of adrienne bailon on perez hilton.com?


WOW SOMEONE'S ATTITUDE CHANGED QUICKLY. I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU DON'T SAY NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT KIM AND DON'T WANT OTHERS TO ???

re: Luso says:
YUP ITS ONLY HER BEAUTY AND STYLE THAT DRAWS PEOPLE TO HER, BUT SHE SUCKS AS A PERSON

jonathan jaxon did not expose anything. This is what happens in Hollywood people and some of you really need to wake up! Publicity stunts happens all the time.

Personally, I don't know and understand why you girls/ladies get married at such a young age? First you guys end up divorcing later because don't go as one plans. You guys get so blind by "love", I mean you could truely love someone at a young age but I just don't understand why you get married so young and throw away other wonderful experiences. Once you get married it's basically a financial commitment more that anything else. You have to take an oath and be willing to support your partner and when we (people) are 19 or 20 yrs. old, we honeslty don't know much of life (I'm talking about true wisdom and experience not smarts/brains).
But its true, no one is perfect and by making mistakes is how we or you girls get stronger as a person and get a step closer to ful-filling our own potential.

I believe that every human being in this world has a special someone that sooner or later he or she will meet.
Well above all, I am only a 17 year old guy who doesn't really know about "life" but thats just a lil bit of what I thihk!

YOur fan,
-Frankie Orozco
4rm Orange County

P.S. Kim is a great example/role model for many young women and girls can learn a lot from her!

you know her "administrator" will post a clarification and fake public apology to kims "dear loving loyal fans" and how this is a big "misunderstanding" and how she would never "betray her loyal fans" and she's sorry if anyone has misunderstood this information. bottom line she is EXPOSED, DESPERATE AND PATHETIC. AND THEN HER A/S/S LICKING FANS WILL BE BACK AT IT AGAIN "KIM UR THE BEST AND WE FORGIVE YOU" COME ON GIRLS, GET A LIFE...GO ENROLL IN SOME COLLEGE COURSES OR GO HELP YOUR COMMUNITIES...DON'T ADD TO HER SITE OR HER FAKE LIES AND GARBAGE.

i think you are so sweet for answering her request and to all the hater TAKE A HIKE! go somewhre else. i mean what celebrity actualy does this, actualy cares enough to answer question and you guys leave so many annoying q's about make up, shoes, clothes..and kim answers them all..wow THANX KIM FOR BEING YOU ;-)

KIM, I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOU AND AUTOGRAPH IT WITH MY NAME ON IT TOO. HOW DO I GO ABOUT GIVING YOU MY ADDRESS SO THAT YOU CAN SEND ME A PICTURE? I READ RECENTLY FROM SOME OF THE FANS THEY RECEIVE A PICTURE OF YOU WITH YOUR AUTOGRAPH. I THOUGHT THAT WAS NICE OF YOU. IT WOULD REALLY MEAN ALOT TO ME. I AM ONE OF YOUR BIGGEST FAN.

THANKS IN ADVANCE

KARDASHIAN FAN

wow whats going on alot of kim's fans are ex-fans now. Whats going on with the fans lately. I guess there alot of things turning the fans off lately huh? I remember when Melissa number 1 fan was a fan. Wow its like that melissa? NYC you were another fan. I try to keep up with the blog when I have time. I just notice alot of fans have been getting turn off lately.

Kim will be puting these rumors to rest either later tonight or tomorrow. Trust me!

HEY DOLL

GREAT ADVICE! STAY SOOO SWEET, BEAUTIFUL AND FASHIONABLE ALWAYSSSS!!!!


FASHIONABLY YOURS

ANDRIE

Stiletto Vixen; I myself come on here mostly to see what she's wearing, her tv appearances, etc. Not to discredit how anyone else felt about her, but i NEVER saw Kim as a role model, nor did i hold her to any type of standard. She's human just like the rest of us. The only difference is that she's rich LOL.

Hey Kim,

On this subject, i can relate sumwhat. im just turned 22yrs old. i have two sons ages 6 and 2. and i ve been with my husband for 8 years but married for 1 1/2 yrs. me and him kinda grown up together so weve been through ALOT. its really hard. I love him but theres alot of times where i want out, to be single, and just do me! But on the other hand im afraid of being alone, my sons being without their dad, feeling like a bad mom! theres so many things to consider. Somtimes i try to hang in there just for my sons. My husband is very jealous, controlling, but im hoping its just a stage hes going through since we are young and hopefully he'll grow out of it? I look up to you and think you are soo beautiful.

Kizzy I agree with you and I stated that on the other blog that although I think the acts are lame, I'm not mad over it because I never held her to a high standard, I like her fashion sense and other small things I feel I relate to and that's pretty much it. I guess some people have high expectations of her so they feel let down. You can't take it personal people. There were enough episodes where you can get an idea of how some of the characters really are.

Hi Kim
I was married at 19 and I am still married, but it has been a hard road, and the advice I give to others is; if you are in too of a hurry to get married, than you are not ready. Real love waits.
Kimberly G

STFU Betsy. You're mad cause you're never the first to comment? What are you 10? Go color or something.

Kim-
I know when a fan comes to you with something like this it is hard to figure out what to say to them. I think you gave he some really good advice and I think for her to reach back out to her family and say to them look I know I made a mistake with getting married so young, and tell them how she really needs their support now through this hard time of getting divorced. I think even if her family still does not support her after she goes back to them then she really needs to rely on her friends. I think you learn from your mistakes. Getting married when you did it wasn't a mistake it was a learning experience and it made you a better person in some way I'm sure Anonymous. I don't think it's healthy for you to stay in a relationship just do avoid a divorce, and stay true to yourself and you beliefs Anonymous. =)
Great Advice Kim and it's so great to see you there for your fans!! No matter what we'll be here to support you Kim!!! Love you!

-Sarah W.

anonymous 3:57pm - How is planting an engagement rumor going to make someone marry you, when the two people involved know that the rumor it is not true?

Publicity stunts happen all the time in Hollyweird. Just look at Spencer and Heidi from "The Hills" everything those two do is a publicity stunt.

Again I just want to comment on how the people who are being "haters" are always the first to comment. I come to your website prety much every day and I'm never even near the first person no matter what time I look at it. It shows that your haters come on here everyy day and check over and over.

By the way I think it's really cool that you answer questions and do videos for your fans. Not a lot of celebrities do.

LOL Luso, say what?

yep maybe she did do it to pressure reggie into marrying her! start a rumor put the pressure on then get a ring. she even said she was planning the wedding and he have not ask her yet!

Sure Ex Fan Melissa...WE can move on...can you? Are you gonna make a comment on this post or are you gonna continue to make crazy, angry comments?

Я не блондинка - я БРЮНЕТКА,

Я не бизе - я шоколад

Я просто дерзкая кокетка,

В крови которой сладкий яд.

Мне слишком много обещали,

Меня ко многому вели,

Меня за все грехи прощали,

Взамен лишь требуя любви...

Брюнетка...страстная пантера,

В моих глазах застыла страсть,

Мне подабается быть стервой,

Всех-всех влюбить и всех под власть!

Я не блондинка - Я БРЮНЕТКА,

Я не бизе - Я шоколад.

Я просто дерзкая кокетка,

В КРОВИ КОТОРОЙ СЛАДКИЙ ЯД!!!

Yes anon I feel so important. Kiki you are still going on and on with me. By the way, not EVERY celeb is as fake and shallow as she is and does all of this publicity stuff. I have finally seen the light. Now can we move on???

I think when it comes to being a fan of someone, some people put in their heads this idea of what that person is like. They fail to realize that expectations is nothing but long term disappointment. You never really know a person no matter how much they put themselves out there for the world to see. In the end, it can all be a facade.

Now I really don't believe this is Kims #1 Fan Melissa lol.

Well Melissa im glad someone could make u feel important by responding to u. Does that take away the sting of Kims lies?

to foxy and anon:


NO BITCHES IM HERE TO STAY JUST OF YOU HUNNIES!! AHAHAHHAHHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHAHAHAHAH

BC IM CCCRRRRRAZZZZZZZZZYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY


stop arguing w me about this sh*t then and ill leave it alone duh! ya'll are just as bad as me you fucking hypocrites!

I dont care what your opinion is. If you're REALLY that mad, ok. But just so you know, ALL celebrities do this stuff all the time. And she wasn't LYING to YOU. She is a celebrity. She does not know you. She was giving you what you wanted. I don't know if you're an adult or not, but as a person old enough to turn on your computer, sit down and write a comment, you should have enough common sense to know that she is just a celebrity. She is/was not your friend.

Kim's EX # 1 Fan Melissa - You are still on Kim's blog acting crazy. Please get some help and move on!!

KIM,

PLEASE GET MARRIED TO REGGIE AND HAVE THE CUTEST LIL BABIES.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.
Lilz

Sorry for the randomness but this blog has just got all fiesty...lol

Then stop leaving pyscho backlash. If ur so upset by what she did be rid of her, don't come on her page bitching about it. Take this for example, this is the first and last time im going to talk to u. :- )

Miss Meliss - We are on the same page! Everyone is getting all bent of shape. People don't realize lots celebs/non-celebs stage things?

Miss Meliss - It's all in good fun now. I don't think anybody really cares about this anymore. Take a look at the last couple posts. Everyone seems to be laughing about it. Some people were disappointed to hear about Kim being a fake, and i think some people already knew she was. There's nothing wrong with expressing that. I think people were so quick to believe this story is because it came from one of Kim's supposed BFFs, which in reality could be yet another attention seeking plot. I like KUWTK too. And i love the relationship they APPEAR to have with each other on camera. But then again, you can't believe everything you see or hear especially in hollywood.

I'm glad you answered this one Kim..it seems like the person who wrote you need some guidance and I hope they find it. Thanks for the post

xoxo

Kims EX #1 Fan Melissa-
She played you for a fool? Really? YOU personally? WOW thats too bad. You're really actin like this is somethin new in Hollywood. You're acin like she was your Best friend and she's just been lying to you! Please...chill with the drama. It aint that serious. She never asked you to be a fan, she didn't set out to deceive you personally. This is what celebrities are about. Shes famous for one reason, and you knew that when you became a fan. You really believed that the video was ...oops! leaked? Come on, you really need to sit down and evaluate yourself if you're really that upset by this.

YUP ITS ONLY HER BEAUTY AND STYLE THAT DRAWS PEOPLE TO HER, BUT SHE SUCKS AS A PERSON

You guys need to get over yourselves..really..so what a couple of things were staged(if what this guy say's is true)..it's a business...and that's how this business works...I was a fan before and i am a fan now...If your truly of a fan of someone..something so small wouldn't deter you away like that...Ya'll saw her show..you see her website..she's a cool person and down with her fans...Now..aside from that..i'm glad she took the time out to answer this question and truly be helpful for that person(or persons) who need it....she doesn't have to answer these questions..but she does...i know ya'll are gonna continue to hate...because you guys don't love yourselves..but..i just decided to put my two cents in...

xoxo,
Mac CeCe

I'm not saying this to anybody in particular, but I think everybody needs to relax. Call me crazy, but I don't understand what everybody is getting all riled up about...
I think we all come her for one reason or another, and I'm sure our reasons are all different. For me, I come here because I like Kim, and I enjoy (most of) the conversations I have with people. I think Kim is gorgeous, and I love her relationship with her family. They make me laugh and, and they make me wish I had a sister (or two...). I also like Kim's sense of style, and I love that she has this blog to keep us updated. That's it. I love watching the show, but I also know that it's just that -- a SHOW. It's for our entertainment, and I could honestly care less if it's real or not. I like it, and that's all that matters...
Anyway, I didn't mean for this to be a huge essay or anything lol, but I just don't see what the big deal is. Everybody is so quick to judge without knowing the whole story, and I hate that.
xoxo

I'm wit ya Luso. Sh*t is crazy. LOL I still like her style but can't believe anything that comes out of her mouth anymore. She's a liar.

LOL, so much anger. Why don't we take all this passion and cure a disease, hmm?

Fake engagement rumor? Wow how despearte for attention! Kim i am soooo disappointed. I thought you was REAL. But it turns out you're nothing but a fake. To Melissa and anon, i guess this just makes me a nutcase too!

OOOOO GAGAGA AWWWW LADIDA LADIDA LMAO!!!

DAMN THIS IS CRAZY!!!PEOPLE WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR FAME, BUT I STILL LOVE HER HAHA

Lmfao @ anon 3:07!


Anon 3:04, I guess I am CRAZY! OOO OoO AWW AWWW Laa laaa COOO COO COOO DADD ADDDDDAAAA BLAAAA


Uhhhhh @ 3:09 you stfu dumbass. This bitch played me for a fool, of course I'm mad!!

I M BACKKK BITCHES!!!!!!
SO WHATS THE DEAL?
WHY IS EVERYONE EXTRA CRAZY TODAY HUH?

Kims EX #1 fan
wat do yu mean yu have every rite 2 be mad at her
bitch yu dont even kno her
stfu dumbass
and go do something constructive wit ur life

wow Kim that was excellent advice girl!! you are truly an amazing person with a very genuine soul...and i love that last sentence by the way!! (life is too short to be unhappy)...that is soooo true...i know! xoxo

Niecy

Can't we all just get along? POOOOOOOOOOOOOW!! Right in the Kisser!! LMAO!! I guess this makes me a nutcase too huh?

Kim's EX #1 Fan Melissa - YOU ARE A NUTCASE!!!

Kiki 2:40pm: You are right, the engagement has been out there since Kim & Reggie were together in Miami on New Years Eve. That's when the rumor was rampant. Who knows which engagement rumor Jonathan Jaxson setup.

It is obvious that Kim's psycho fans are the ones that are taking this really hard.

Y R U people attacking each other's posts?? Whatever happened to 'everyone's entitled to their own opinions'? Let people type what they wanna type. Stop making such a big deal about it! The more important issue at hand is that Kim is pathetic Lame-O! POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!! Right in the kisser!! LMAO!!

no i dnt buy those "fake" kim talks and rumors ur the sweetest but i kinda dnt get why u dnt answer the questions u receive frm all of us and especially the make up requests and questions thats mostly the quesitons are about for ex. Tanned beauty was gona kill herself and yet no reply or alot of anonymous's make up questions and "kimmie" ur sweet but im starting to get kinda curious cause i feel u dnt put much attention into it, and we'd love ur make up rescues and advices and taste thats why we ask about it. Hope u reply kim love you sooomuch by the way.

Latina Princess 2:40pm – You always sound so ignorant! None of your post make any sense.

You're welcome Melissa. I know how you feel. I remember some of your posts and you did take up for Kim when she obviously now didn't deserve it. I feel you on that one. Hell you even went at it with me a couple times on here about Kim LOL. I'm glad this came out so you can see her true colors. No hard feelins ;)

anon @ 2:47 STFU! I do NOT come on here CONTANTLY RANTING you dumbass. Today is the first time EVER I have dissed Kim or went against so get your fact straight.


Eff all of you, I'm mad at this fake bi tch and I have every right to be. Eff you if you dont like it!

Thanks you anon! Thats how I feel. It makes me sad that I defended her and dealt w all of the shit I got from ppl here, and there were times I questioned her, but still remained a fan and defended her.


Now I find out she is all about publicity, and maybe somewhere in the back of my head I knew that, I just didnt want to believe that.

Kim's Ex #1 Melissa - No one takes you seriously. You constantly come on here ranting about different things. If you are so angry then stop coming on here.

You are not proving your point!

lol why are you ppl so angry!? lol
shes not hurting yu
go get a hobby
anyway GREAT advice Kim!!!!!

This is good advice. I married at 19 too. My husband and I drifted apart after about 2.5 years of marriage. I ended up falling for a guy I worked with and we had an emotional affair (which can often be worse!). After this had gone on for 3 months, I finally told my husband about it. He had some secrets too and we both decided to break our bad habits and trust one another. We've been married for 7 years now and are very happy. My husband is my best friend and we get along great now. I'd say fight for your marriage. I know what it's like to want out but it may be possible to make it work!

Hey Guys - I have seen this question before. It is old, this is actually the second question that I remember Kim answered that I have seen.

I don't think Kim's EX #1 Fan Melissa is wrong for feeling the way she does. It's perfectly normal to love someone one day and completely change that feeling overnight when they disappoint you. To find out that the person you admired so much is a fraud is really upsetting, especially if you sat up here and defended Kim against everybody who bad mouthed her. Kim made a fool of her fans by playing on their sympathy and their 'love' for her, creating these ridiculous rumors about herself just so she can seem more interesting. How pathetic !!

Of course it was staged, u guys need to grow up

Kiki -- alright, I just wanted to make sure there was no confusion! But I think you're right about the crazies & Melissa not being the same person, although they all seem equally upset...
xoxo

KIm writes in her own "fake" questions! how come she never answers any of our questions? and you know she is sitting on her fat a$$ right now laughing getting paid to make fools of us! she is a J0ke! no talent!

Modesta - Don't you have some homework to go do or something? Your little rant is laughable. Maybe if you took the time to read what's been going on with your precious Kim, you wouldn't be throwing an internet hissy fit right now. Grow up !!

Wow what is going on today on this site...I agree with all of the above! Kim has played all of us for stupid people! ALWAYS ACTING LIKE A VICTIM...like the media just won't stop talking about her! PLEASE...you also know that the 3rd seasons of the Kardashians took forever because of negotiations...THEY ARE ALL ABOUT THE DOLLAR BILL YALL! What a shame...she plans her stunts lol Paris was right about her...she is DESPERADO! Did anyone other than myself catch the last episode of the season for Dr. 90210? The girl did her butt! lol omg KIM'S IS SO FAKE! She went to the extent of taping her jean size...if her butt was real don't you think she'd go on Tyra and have a Dr. examine her for the world to see...that would be all the publicity she craves for...FOR FREE! IT'S TIME KIMMY COMES CLEAN! A TRULY DISSAPOINTED EX FAN.

Well Kim's #1 Fan Melissa...if that is you then maybe you dhould get some help. To be so in love with someone one day and then freak out on them the next seems a little bi-polar. Just some advice, not tryin to be mean, you just sound a little unstable

Hey Kim,
That was Great advise you gave! I got married at 25 and still wasn't ready. I got divorced 7 years later. Like you, I tried to make it work. But sometimes we, as women, try to keep together things that GOD himself is trying to break apart! This I learned the hard way. I think marriage is a really HUGE step and should only be considered if you are absolutely sure in your heart that it is the right thing. There is absolutely nothing wrong in dating or being engaged for a while.

****And to all you haters******
Get a Life BITCHES!!!!!!!!! It's really sad that you have nothing else better to do with your sad little lives than to come onto Kims website and hate on her... You know Jealousy must be a Bitch... HUH BITCHES!!!!!!!!

Sorry Kim, I just think it's soo dumb for people to be soo rude to comment on how they hate you and how you have made huge mistakes... I mean come on!!! Who hasn't made mistakes? And if they hate you so bad, Freakin stay off your website! How unfortunate for them! I am a huge fan of your's Kim and I think you are a Great person!!!! Stay FAB Doll!!!!

Hey Miss Meliss, no I thought it was Kim's #1 Fan Melissa. But yeah, I don't think its her b/c her name popped up as soon as the crazy comments started coming in. Besides it doesnt sound like her at all.

Yes Peggy its the same one who always sticks up for her but not anymore. Not when I know she makes her own publicity stunts.


Kiki,

Not all of these comments are from me. The ones that are have my name. All I can do is tell you that, even though you won't believe me. I don't really care what you think. I just finally see Kim for her true colors.

KIM stages everything... she doesnt respect her fans! Thats funny about the engagement rumors and then kim tries to act like a victim telling us not to believe everything we read yet she is planting the stories herself ... making a fool out of her fans

If you guys are talking about ME Melissa, then no it's not lol.
There is a "Kims #1 Fan Melissa" and I'm assuming that's who it is (I only figure since it's the same name with an added EX in it)...
So much drama today! Wow.
xoxo

Peggy I don't think that's really Melissa I think this is the same (PATHETIC,LOOOOSER, etc) person posting over and over again. All the comments sound the same.

Thanks Kiki & Melissa~

Wow. I must say, i had my doubts about Kim, but Adrienne??? She always seemed so sweet and innocent and i can't believe that she helped orchestrate this whole thing. She had everybody feeling sorry for her, and to think she may have been behind the whole thing. If she was, then i don't believe the pics mysteriously coming out was an accident either. And the fake rumor about an engagement? If that's true, it is pretty pathetic. I mean, is it that serious of a need to be talked about? How embarrassing, not to mention humiliating.

To: Kims EX #1 Fan Melissa:

Wow is that really you Melissa?? Why are you so mad?? You use to be Kim's biggest fan! You use to always take up for her! I cant believe that some of you fans are just realizing how fake she really is!! What took you so long????

Damn melissa you're really angry, are't you? Its gonna be ok calm down.

The engagement rumor was a while ago, she has posted pics of her and Reggie since then. I'm pretty sure they're together.

Wow! This is crazy!! I just heard Johnathan's interview. So are Kim and Reggie still together?? She usually posts things about him but she hasnt for a week now! Did they both plan that fake engagement stunt?? Why would Adriene do that to herself, her image and most of all her fans. Why are these celeberties so desperate??

This story sounds like ARMENIAN parents to me. Is this guy our of your race? May God help your situation.

hhey kim:)
gr8 advice!! dats sucha a terrible situation 2be in my heart really goes out to her!be strong hun;) x and kimmy keep d advice coming doll:P x x x x x x x

OH OK Kiki thanks for clearing that up then.

well kim fans are a bunch of idiots if so many young girls are stating "i got married young too and i have a baby"...what do u people know about being a mother? that is y so many kids end up on the wrong route because girls are DUMB AND GET KNOCKED UP TO KEEP A MAN and think it's gonna work out and it DOESN'T. then the woman is stuck with a child and can't provide a healthy household...when are girls gonna stop being dumb over some sausage? it gets old...TRUST ME, LIVE UR LIFE, GET AN EDUCATION AND BUILD FOR YOURSELF. DON'T TRAP A MAN.

great advice kim! u are so nice to all ur fans<3

Kizz go to the previous post and read the comments

I've seen a few of the original comments. The problem is she takes too long and nobody remebers. I remeber seeing the original question from that plastic surgery nonsense, but it was posted like 2 months before Kim actually answered it.

Wait. What??? The whole Adrienne thing was staged??? How??? Did i miss something? I am so out of the loop. Can someone please fill me in?

I just find it weird that everyone from Kim's crew (Paris, Kim, Adrienne) gets caught up in really dumb scandals that could have been avoided and then they want people's pity... i dont get it... just admit that you guys love attention and dont care from what avenue it comes from...

You lost me as a fan.

that was great advice kim..
that straight up sounds like it comes from within.Regardless of what people might think weather there real or fake question it really helps women that are going through thanks!! keep doing your thing.

nice advice....

what advice are you giving Adrienne concering her nude pic scandal?

Anon - Kim's advice is bang on. Life is way to short to be unhappy - that applies to all aspects of your life (career, relationships, etc.). I can't imagine your family rejecting you if you reach out to them and if they do - that's THEIR loss. That being said, I do hope you have great friends that you can lean on and who will help you get through this - because you WILL get through this. Also, use the internet to find books on relationships (divorce) as well as support groups. I read a lot and recommend you reading (if you haven't already) "Eat, Pray, Love", "The Alchemist" and "Wouldn't take nothing for my journey now".

Be well.

Cheers! :)

Nobody on here knows where these questions are coming from. We suspect that Kim makes them up because we never see these questions posted in the comments section. Maybe they're being submitted a different way, who knows.

To the girl who had the question:

I agree with Kim. To help you out a little more, I got married at a very young age as well. My parents DID NOT want me to get married, but they supported me. I realized I made a mistake. Most of my marriage I was convincing myself and everyone else that I was happy. I let the marriage drag on for over 3 years. Finally, I had to be true to myself and everyone else. I was scared of what everyone would think of me, I was worried that I'd be alone. I did not want to hear "I TOLD YOU SO." Let me tell you, as soon as I made the decision to leave my ex, I felt so free. Getting over that hump is very tough, but trust me, you will be finally be happy. You only live once. Live for yourself. Stay positive and good luck.

Yes Kim, sometimes our parents can be harsh but now being older, I realize they have valid points.

None of us can find a way Jessica sorry. I don't ever see these questions on the comments. Including this one and the questions always some how relate to something she personally did herself. Kinda weird yes it was definitely good advice but I just find it weird that the questions are always in relation to her life experiences. I'm sure that's where she will be best in giving advice but it just seems like they make the questions up or something

Hello Kim:

Hello I love your show and all of you girls. I have a sister and we are really close to. We lost our father 3 years ago so I know how you firls feel when you talk about your dad. Just asking have you and your sisters ever think about coming to Puerto Rico its a beautiful island.

Love to see u girls one day.

Take care a fan from Puerto Rico

Sigdia

Well put Kim! I can honestly say I am certainly not the same girl I was in high school, college or even after college. I have even changed since becoming a mother. Its amazing. Things I used to think were cool and exciting are that way anymore. My priorities are different now that I am a mother. That's a part of growing up and maturing.

I was raised by my grandparents and I used to think, damn they are always on me never letting me do this and that. I mean my friends parents were letting them go out and do this and that but not mine. Now that I look back I appreciate it sooooo much. All of my close high school friends got pregnant like our senior year or 1st year in college!! I was the only one who didn't have a child until age 26. Although I disliked how stricted they were with me growing up, it was for the best.

Great advice Kim, you didn't tell her what she should do but instead gave her suggestions.


Tenecia

Does anyone know How i can send kim a question like the one above? I really would to ask her something but I cant seem to find a way.
Thanks,
Jessica

Hey does anyone know where I go to ask kim a question like blog above? I really would like to ask her something but I just cant seem to find a way.
Thanks,
Jessica

WOoOoOoOoOW go kim that is a great adivse really really good adivse

and to Anonymous you can do it and just like kim be strong and follow your heart

and LiFe is to short to be unhappy
You can do it

hope all best for your decision

Just be STRONG...

Love Ya kim and You rock yaAaAaAy my Lovely IDOL :) :) :) :) :) (K) (K)

Saints Fan Nancy - you sound really crazy!! You are proving it with your post.

Hey Kim and all readers! I think that Kim gave some really good advice here! You should always try to reach out to your family for help, even if they are mad at you they are still your family. I was also married when I was 20 to my boyfriend of three years and we are still together 2 years later and very happy.... I think for some people that age is very young but for me it is working out very well. I think it depends on the lifestyle you want. I didnt care much about partying during college or getting drunk, I cared more about doing well, chillin with my friends in the dorms, and spending time with my wonderful boyfriend. When we got engaged I knew it was right for me and feel our relationship getting stronger everyday. But when you cant remember the last time you were happy, its definately time to get out! I wish you the best of luck . XOXO.

GREAT Advice Kimmy!

wow Kim that is great advise...life is too short to be unhappy...thank you for that advise....i have been unhappy with myself as well.I stopped going to school and gained a good 50 pounds I was just telling my co-worker I was unhappy and its true im too young to be unhappy…I have the best husband in the world. who supports me in everything I do. I re enrolled to school last week all I need to do is to start working out!! thanks kim!

November 11, 2008 11:40 AM
NYC girl says:
Kim, so do you wanna post a blog about how you create stunts for create media frenzy? Maybe you should post a blog about Adrienne, it can make you more money since you probably knew about this stunt in the first place...lol..

hey kim could you tell me what kind of make up you used on halloween when you had the red lips. i really like that look alot i love the eyeshadow, blush and everything it all lokked so good. plzz kim let me kno.
Love ya

Hey Kiki!!!

Great advice! 19 is very young. My mum was married with one child at that age, i'm 21 and cannot see myself getting married for a few years now. Be strong for yourself 'Anonymous'. Kim is totally right, life is too short to be unhappy. Be true to yourself and to your partner. Neither of you should be with eachother if you know its not right. Good Luck :)

Love you Kim :)

Lilz

~~~KIM~~~
THIS ADVICE U GAVE THIS YOUNG LADY WAS VERY HELPFUL HOPEFULLY SHE TAKES THIS INTO CONSIDERATION AND GETS OUT THIS NASTY SITUATION OK.... I DON'T KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE MARRIED BUT I ONCE LIVED WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 6 MONTHS, YEA WE LOVED EACH OTHER AND LOVE EACH OTHER STILL (AGAIN) BUT IN THE MIX OF EVERYTHING WHEN UR NOT READY UR JUST NOT READY BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH WE GOT ALONG AT TIMES WE STILL HAD OUR HUGE FIGHTS AND ARGUMENTS. THE BEST THING FOR ME TO DO WAS COME BACK HOME AND IT WAS A TIME WHEN MY MOM DIDNT WANT ME TO COME BACK BUT AT THE END OF IT ALL THE ONLY PERSON THAT WAS THERE TO HELP ME WAS MY MOM, SO SHE MIGHT DISOWN U FOR A WHILE BUT SHE WILL NEVER DISOWN U FOREVER, SHES PROBABLY JUST MAD THAT HER LIL GIRL GOT MARRIED AND IT WASN'T THE WAY SHE PROBABLY THOUGHT IT WOULD HAPPEN....I HOPE SHE SEES THIS AND THINKS ABOUT IT BECAUSE ITS NEVER TO LATE TRUST ME ONE OF MY FRIENDS WAS WITH HER BOYFRIEND FOR 10 YRS. AND THEY BROKE UP THE OTHER DAY AND SHE SAYS SHES NOT GOING BACK AND SHES BEING DEAD SERIOUS I KNOW SHES FOR REAL SO IF SHE CAN ANYONE CAN
CIAO

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH KIM. SOMETIMES WE DONT MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES AND THATS SOMETHING THAT WE HAVE TO DEAL WITH. I THINK NO MATTER HOW MAD YOUR PARENTS ARE THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. PARENTS SOMETIMES GET UPSET BECAUSE THEY CANT MAKE US CHANGE OUR MIND ON WHAT THEY ALREADY KNOW IS WRONG...I THINK THAT IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY ITS BEST TO END IT AND ONCE YOUR PARENTS SEE THAT YOU REALIZED IT WAS WRONG THEY WILL BE THERE FOR YOU! =D

GOOD LUCK DOLL!

I know everybody is different, but I DEFINITELY wasn't ready to be married at 19! lol. Good advice though Kim :)
I can't think of anything I could do that would be bad enough for my family to disown me, thank GOD. They've put up with a lot, but I think it has made our relationship stronger. Being married (in my opinion) is not something to mess around with, and I do believe you should try EVERYTHING in your power to make a marriage work. If all else fails, fine. But at least you can walk out knowing that you tried your hardest.
xoxo

thats good!
Hey kim can you let us know the gold chandelier earrings you wear?
thank!

Sassy's a freeken idiot. Shutup don't talk to my Kimmy like that!!

hmmm... you have made mistake after mistake since you were 19... I am wondering when it will stop. Now you just sound like a desperate little girl hoping and praying that Reggie will marry you.

hi

You really give great advice. I met my husband at age 19, but we did not get married until a few years later. You really need that time to get to know yourself and to grow in the relationship.
I love your site and I am a huge fan. I love getting regular updates on what is going on with you.

This is good advice! I was married at 20 and a mother at 21. A few years later I realized that it was not a healthy situation for me or my son but I was also dealing with my beliefs and morals. I had a hard time dealing with a divorce. My mother is old fashioned too so divorce was also unheard of. In the end enough was enough and I chose to be happy and have a healthy life and environment to both me and my son

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