Hi Kimmy,

Congrats on all of your achievements. I think that you’re a great person with a big heart. I’ve recently come across an interview you did back in 2007 and you mentioned that you married young and learned from your mistakes. I got married when I was 19 and I’m 23 now. I’ve been married for nearly four years. Though I’ve chosen to marry against my parents’ will, I don’t remember the last time I’ve been happy with him. I’ve learned we have so many differences and I am struggling to get out of this marriage. I don’t know what to do. My parents have disowned me, I’ve got no love and support from my family, so I would really appreciate your input on this. You’re my idol, and I wish I can one day have the courage and strength you had to move on with your life and put your mistakes behind you. Love you heaps… AND PLZ REPLY TO THIS. I’LL FOREVER BE GRATEFUL!

From,
Anonymous

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  1. Tenecia  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    Well put Kim! I can honestly say I am certainly not the same girl I was in high school, college or even after college. I have even changed since becoming a mother. Its amazing. Things I used to think were cool and exciting are that way anymore. My priorities are different now that I am a mother. That’s a part of growing up and maturing.

    I was raised by my grandparents and I used to think, damn they are always on me never letting me do this and that. I mean my friends parents were letting them go out and do this and that but not mine. Now that I look back I appreciate it sooooo much. All of my close high school friends got pregnant like our senior year or 1st year in college!! I was the only one who didn’t have a child until age 26. Although I disliked how stricted they were with me growing up, it was for the best.

    Great advice Kim, you didn’t tell her what she should do but instead gave her suggestions.

    Tenecia

  2. Sigdia  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    Hello Kim:

    Hello I love your show and all of you girls. I have a sister and we are really close to. We lost our father 3 years ago so I know how you firls feel when you talk about your dad. Just asking have you and your sisters ever think about coming to Puerto Rico its a beautiful island.

    Love to see u girls one day.

    Take care a fan from Puerto Rico

    Sigdia

  3. Stiletto Vixen  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    None of us can find a way Jessica sorry. I don’t ever see these questions on the comments. Including this one and the questions always some how relate to something she personally did herself. Kinda weird yes it was definitely good advice but I just find it weird that the questions are always in relation to her life experiences. I’m sure that’s where she will be best in giving advice but it just seems like they make the questions up or something

  4. To the girl who had the question:

    I agree with Kim. To help you out a little more, I got married at a very young age as well. My parents DID NOT want me to get married, but they supported me. I realized I made a mistake. Most of my marriage I was convincing myself and everyone else that I was happy. I let the marriage drag on for over 3 years. Finally, I had to be true to myself and everyone else. I was scared of what everyone would think of me, I was worried that I’d be alone. I did not want to hear “I TOLD YOU SO.” Let me tell you, as soon as I made the decision to leave my ex, I felt so free. Getting over that hump is very tough, but trust me, you will be finally be happy. You only live once. Live for yourself. Stay positive and good luck.

    Yes Kim, sometimes our parents can be harsh but now being older, I realize they have valid points.

  5. Anonymous  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    Nobody on here knows where these questions are coming from. We suspect that Kim makes them up because we never see these questions posted in the comments section. Maybe they’re being submitted a different way, who knows.

  6. mtlgal  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    Anon – Kim’s advice is bang on. Life is way to short to be unhappy – that applies to all aspects of your life (career, relationships, etc.). I can’t imagine your family rejecting you if you reach out to them and if they do – that’s THEIR loss. That being said, I do hope you have great friends that you can lean on and who will help you get through this – because you WILL get through this. Also, use the internet to find books on relationships (divorce) as well as support groups. I read a lot and recommend you reading (if you haven’t already) “Eat, Pray, Love”, “The Alchemist” and “Wouldn’t take nothing for my journey now”.

    Be well.

    Cheers! :)

  7. NYC girl  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    nice advice….

    what advice are you giving Adrienne concering her nude pic scandal?

  8. fabulush  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    that was great advice kim..
    that straight up sounds like it comes from within.Regardless of what people might think weather there real or fake question it really helps women that are going through thanks!! keep doing your thing.

  9. NYC girl  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    I just find it weird that everyone from Kim’s crew (Paris, Kim, Adrienne) gets caught up in really dumb scandals that could have been avoided and then they want people’s pity… i dont get it… just admit that you guys love attention and dont care from what avenue it comes from…

    You lost me as a fan.

  10. Kizzz  |   Posted on Nov 11th, 2008

    Wait. What??? The whole Adrienne thing was staged??? How??? Did i miss something? I am so out of the loop. Can someone please fill me in?

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