HEEEEY KIM. i love all of the advice your giving people and i was wondering if you would give me some too. will heres my story, theres this boy at my school and everyones telling me he likes me and that hes been wanting to talk to me, so i sorta fell for him and now i really like him. but the thing is hes relly shy about it and wont tell me his feelings for me and i dont want to be wasting my time on him if nothings going to happen. i tried asking him but whenever i do he runs away. and he now thinks i go out with this one boy that has a similar name to his and he told me that i got there names mixed up and i like the other boy instead of him which is totalllly wrong. but im wondering why he thinks that when i act like i really like him and i told him myself that i like him. &its alll his brothers fault bcoz he seen me sitting on the stairs with the other boy and we were talking, there was other people but they had walked away. and so i guess he told his brother (the guy i like) about it. his brother is so rude to me, i cant stand him. lol. and now everythings messed up. what should i do ?

Dear Kim,

I am currently a sophomore in college, and I have not had a boyfriend, much less been on a date, since high school (almost two years). I'm very friendly, and people tell me I'm really pretty, but I don't know what the deal is. I'm involved with several organizations here at school so that I get to meet lots of people, but for some reason, I still have not been asked out. I have friends who meet a guy, then two weeks later, they're dating, but somehow that never happens to me. What can I do to help my situation? Thank you!

DEAR KIM,
I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I LOVE YOU! I THINK YOU ARE AWESOME! I HAVE A QUESTION, I'M A CURVACEOUS GIRL I WEIGHT 145 LBS.AND I'M 5'2 I REALLY WANT TO LOOSE ABOUT 15 - 20 LBS. BUT I DON'T WANT TO LOOSE MY BOOTY. I LOVE IT. LOL! I WANT I FLAT TUMMY AND FIRM LEGS. WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST?

P.S. I'M SO BAD WITH KEEPING DIETS!

Hey Kim,

I know you're busy and all but I have to ask you something. I know it sounds demanding but I'm embarrassed to ask it here so if there's a way for me to message you in private, let me know. thanks.

Hi Kimmy,
This is a KIM TO THE RESCUE QUESTION...and i really hope you can respond to it. First of all i'd like to say congrats on all ur achievements, i think that ur a great person with a big heart. I've recently came across an interview u did back 2007 and u mentioned about marrying young and learning from ur mistakes. Well i got married when i was 19 and am 23 now. I've been married for nearly four yrs. Though i've chosen to marry against ma parents will, i dont remember the last time i've been happy wit him. I've learnt we've got so much difference and am strugglin to get out of this marriage. I dont know wat to do. My parents have disowned me, i've got no love and support from ma family, so i would really appreciate your input on this.

Your ma idol, and i wish i can one day have the courage and strength you had to move on wit ur life and put ur mistakes behind you.

Luv u heaps,,,,AND PLZ REPLY TO THIS. I'LL FOREVER BE GREATFULL.

Keep up the good work on DWTS...i vote for ya everynight...

Hey Kim,
First of all I want to say that I love your style and congrats on all your sucess! I have a serious fashion question! I say serious because it is dealing with my hair! :) I am half Puerto Rican and half Dominican and for years I have stuck to the blond family. Like about ten years or so. I'm talikng about like a strawberry blond and things of that nature. Until about two years ago I decided to go platinum blond-which is the blondest of them all! :) Anyways, lately I have been wanting and feeling like I need a change. I was thinking about going darker. Much darker, like a dark brown. But I am really, really scared and nervous because I'm afraid it won't look good on me. You know the saying if it ain't broke don't fix it! Well that's how I feel about my hair, but I really feel like this color might, just might look good on me and make me look more latina. So, my first question is what color is your hair? Is it black or dark brown? And, do you think I can pull off the darker look?? Please let me know your thoughts! I would really really appreciate it! Thanks! :)

xoxoxo
"Confused"

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OMG KIM AND EVRY1 ELSE THNX 4 THE ADVICE I CANT BELIVE U ALL RESPONDED THNX SOOOOOO MUCH 4 ALL THE ADVICE AND I AM GIONG TO CONTINUE ON AS PLANNED AND BE THE HEAD HONCHO LUV ALL OF YA,DOLLS! Once again thnx for all the advice Kim and every1 else i will take all of your comments into considerartion!

Hey Kim, if you were to cut your hair short what type of style would u do? Just curious

Hi Kim,
I was just wondering how you were able to get a blackberry bold? I've seen a couple of pictures with a bold and I remember you previously had a curve if I'm not mistaken. Im a blackberry addcit as well...Thanks!

Shanterra, Just ask your question in the comments area of any "Kim to the Rescue" post. That's where she picks them from.

Hi I was wondering how do you ask a question for Kim to the Rescue?

I agree with Kim's advice. Head Honcho, just keep laying down the law. Try to stay fair and when possible, compromise. Be willing to help them out with whatever rules you set (as far as cleaning/homework) that way they know that your not just trying to be "the boss" of them. Stay strong and don't cave in. As long as you have they're well being in mind, they shouldn't stay mad for long when you put your foot down. They'll appreciate/respect you more when they're older and past the rebellious stage.

Kimmi-
I want to vote for you so step up your game. You can win but you have to shake what your momma gave you. Can you take the time to do a blog your favorite picks for Fall 08'. Like pics of things that are going to be hot. Kind of what you do with magazine clippings showing us examples for Hair, Makeup and Clothes including. thanks.

I LOVE U, KIM :) U R MY IDOL. . I HOPE I CAN MEET U ONE DAY!! U R MY EVERYTHING! GOOD LUCK :)

Do you have no life?

you update your blog ever 2.345 seconds

Great Advice Kim!! xoxo
Good Luck Tonight!

Pretty girl i hope she answers ur q. coz i have the same prob too...believe me ALL HEELS HURT!!! i have christian l. and they hurt even more than my nine west heels...

Hi Kim!,

I love your style and think that you are a sweet person. I hope you do well on DWTS! I have a "Kim to the Rescue" question. I love wearing heels but of course walking in them (for long periods of time) make my feet hurt! I've tried insoles, but they never really work. I thought about using a numbing gel that ballerinas use for their feet, but I haven't tried that yet. I noticed that you and your sisters wear heels all of the time as well. What do you do to combat the ache? Of course I can't afford high end designers like Christian Louboutin. I mostly only wear Nine West which I LOVE! Can you help?

Thanks,
PrettyGirl

Hey can you recommend some knee boots?

I love the python looking ones you had in purple and grey that you wore last year. what are you recommendations for this year, as well as Fall fashions?

thanks

great advice Kim

I TOTALLY AGREE KIM, I AM THE OLDEST AND THERE IS A TEN YR AGE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN MY YOUNGEST SISTER AND I AND SHE MAY NOT RELIZE NOW BUT DOWN THE ROAD SHE WILL RESPECT MY CO-PARENTING