Antoinette,

It does take time to find someone you are a perfect match with. Everyone makes mistakes with people along the way and it's good to not bring them around your daughter. Patience is key! If my mom could find someone who loved her and she had four kids, then anything is possible! You must have a little bit of trust issues due to your last relationship, but that is natural. Just continue to be you and you will find what you are looking for!

Stay strong,
Kim


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Dear Kim,

I am a single parent to a seven-year-old. I am 27 years old also. I need help finding a man who is as sweet and caring as Reggie Bush and is willing to step to the plate and accept the role as a dad. I have trouble because my daughter's father committed suicide when she was five-months-old. Ever since I have not been able to find someone who really cares about us. I am very careful not to bring them around my daughter. A lot of guys tell me that I am wife material but they are not ready to be in that type of relationship. Can I have some pointers on how to catch a real man?

From,
Antoinette

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hi kim i love you
your mij inspiration
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Hi All ~

I love this website!!! For someone reason, I am not able to find out how to ask Kim a question (Kim to the Rescue. Do I just leave it in the Comment box?

Thanks in advance

Dear Kim!

Do you have personal experience with racism? I sometimes get insulted because of my oriental looks but I don´t see why I should dye my hair or wear bright contacts. I´m biracial and I don´t feel "at home" anywhere and I have the feeling people always see me as a foreigner and have a prejudice against me. How do you deal with situations like this?

thanks and may god bless you, Nadja

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I am Shmily, 42 years old girl, living in New York. Last month I met my boyfriend on a 40+ singles dating site. It is so nice for me. But my girlfriends Julia, Galina, Irina did not find thier love. What are you waitting for?? Come on, nice guys. See their photos @ [ www.JSeniorMatch.com ] ASAP.


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Hey Kim,


I am currently in college and dating a boy who is on the football team and could possibly turn pro. I am sure that he is the one for me. My question for you is, how do you deal with all of the groupies and women trying to constantly get at your man?

Also, do you have any advice for me on becoming a publicist? I think that would be a really cool job and I LOVE working with people.

Thanks Kim!

Hi Kim, i just want to give that girl some advice. I am in her same situation, I have a 7 yr old boy and im a sigle mom. I think she just need to go out, that ways being out she could find a good man. I hope she finds the right guy for her. I also wanted to say that I love your website Kim, you are so pretty and I wish I was more like you. I love all the clothes that you wear. You look great.

You dumb ass, she said she is 27 and her daughter is 7 not 17. Why dont you reread her post before you start cracking jokes. Stupid ass broads boy I tell ya.

Okay,this comment thing keep's saying error text is wrong :( I'll try again..
You seem to know of a lot of charities.Do you know of one that could help a disabled Vet?A 'contractor' destroyed her home and stole everything.Her home's fixed now &,with renters,she can pay the mortgage again,but she needs to get it up to date before they will accept regular payments again.Most org's say her mortgage is too high to help($400,000)??I don't get that.A grant to pay it off would be ideal,but we mostly need to get it up to date,& noone will help.Noone has a heart.Any info would be dearly appreciated!Najista :)

In response to this girl's question... you have a seven year old daughter, why not be a positive role model for her and invest more time into your relationship with her? Show your child that you don't NEED to have a boyfriend/husband in your life in order to achieve happiness in your life. Being a single parent is hard, and there are a lot of strange people in this world, that prey on weak and desperate women "looking for love". Your child should be #1 priority, as well as her safety. Take time to travel, go shopping, and having "girls day". Women need to stop being so desperate and hoping for "Mr.Right" and focus more of their energy and time into raising their children. Just sayin'

Here's my take on the 27 y/o single parent.

When she says all of the guys say she's wife material,thats the problem.
She can't come off as being wife material it has to sorta look like it was the last thing you were looking for.
Been there, married 25 years.

I totaly agree with kim be patient THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU! Just be patient i know because my mom had 4 before she got with her hubby now there is 7 in total and they love each other to death so just keep searchin!

woahhhhhh ur way to young to have a 17 year old! u must have had her at like.... 10. good luck finding a man.

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Dear Kim,

I have to say you have a great heart. Your advice to Antoinette was so good. And its so true what you said about patience being key. I am happily married but I can say you give great advice!!! Keep up the good work and always stay beautiful inside and out!!!


Hey kim,

I like how they way u ans her question. It was good advice. I have question I haven't hard time finding a nice guy for me. The guys that have been dating are ass hole. I date guys that are younger then me, im 28 years old and im still having hard time find that perfect guy, some of my friends are getting married and some them have been with their bf for 2 to 3 years. They alway asking me when Im going get a bf.They keep saying im getting older and it about time. How can I tell my friends to stop asking me the same question over again and how do I know if that guy is perfect for me. Thanks kim

Love always,
Yolanda

XOXO

She's a beautiful woman. She' so gorgeous . I love her. I saw her profile with photos at JSeniorMatch. c om. I also found her blog there. May be she met some mature babies there.

Dear Kim,

I have this issue with make up, hair and working (making money). I'm the only girl child in a single parent family and I wish I had sisters like yours to help me with my decision making. I'm 18 years old and LOVE LOVE LOVE to be fashion forward like you and your I love clothes, make up (MAC) and accessories, but work like a dog just to get by and always try hard to get nice things with the amount of money I'm limited to. I always want to buy and try new things but find myself always short of money because of school payments, books, car payments and insurance. I see how great you are with making your own money to buy all of the things you desire and was wondering if you had any tips because at the moment I'm stuck as a nanny while living at home as a freshmen in college. I get good grades for discounts on car insurance and scholarships for school, but I just can't do it all and be fashion forward it seems. You're my ideal women and I look up to you and work so long and hard, but I come across issues, like my hair is dry with split ends and looks dull and needs a cut, or I have bags under my eyes and can't correct it that well with make up and people call me Indian (I'm puerto rican about your skin tone), I wish that I could spend a day getting tips from you about all this stuff like a total Lisa makeover day by you hahah but just a little advice from you would probably help me out a lot!

Love,
Trying hard, but struggling :/

P.S. I'm saving to buy myself a birthday present from DASH you're clothes are supper cute! :)

Kim will you let us know what earrings you wore during the bartles & james BBQ a while ago. I notice you wear them in different colors as well. Love your website & show! You put so much time in with your fans I LOVE it!

OMG why do people ask KIM the silliest questions of all?

yeah thats right i mean, it's easy to find a any person but if you are looking for somebody in a serious way you have to be patient, but it is possible, to anybody specially if you a re such a good person that takes care of your daughter!, by the way Kim in think that you are the best for doing this, helping people that trust in you for being who you are, and doing something positive with your fame, you are a real role model! regardless of what some haters say!

hey good advice !
i have a question , i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a halve and we really trust each other and all but recently he had to leave the country,it's been 2 weeks already and it's probably gonna be another 3! do you ever get suspicious, is it normal to ?
i feel i have same type of trusting and loving relationship as you and reggie so i would just like to know ...
thanks so much !
xoxo
sarah

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