Dear Kim,

You always seem to have confidence in yourself. I, however, lack confidence. Everyone says that I’m a pretty girl, but I feel that I’m not. Whenever I’m with my friends, they always get more attention from guys… and they aren’t “all-that” great looking. I’ve got personality, and they don’t. I always find myself comparing their body types to mine, because they are size zeroes, and that makes me think that guys always go for the thin ones. How can I stop comparing and start to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel more confident?

Sincerely,

Not Confident

Comments 109

  1. LMAO  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    LOL…why do I get the impression that this ‘question’ is an indirect hit on Shanna? If so, good for you. HILARIOUS.

  2. Shanna  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Kim,
    I don’t know how you stay strong with all the haters watching your every move. I guess you can’t please everybody. I just wanted to say a quick thank you for keeping up with this site for your fans. The advice and fashion tips you post are really appreciated!

    And back to the topic, I agree with the advice you gave. If you feel good about yourself, people will notice. Confidence is key.

  3. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Wow the above post is fucking sad. “she’ll go after anyones man” ….honey no one can TAKE ur man from you…HE decides 2 leave…shanna is a dumbass

  4. anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    I have a problem and I want kim’s help. How do I post my question?

  5. Omaryo  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Gotta love S. You know she was the OG GD if you get my drift. Married Oscar Delahoya, had a child with him. She had your game on lock way before this blogging/baller stuff went down. She was a beauty queen when she was young and asked to do pb and did so not because she was a creepy hairy trolll. She’s a gorgeous tall, leggy blonde.

  6. no. 1 fan  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    i want to marry you kim kardashian

    x

    a cute guy fan of yours

  7. uhh...  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    well, now i know that travis barker’s ex is a drunk courtney love type.
    i don’t see how that has anything to do with this blog though. way to stay on topic thaaarrr retard!

  8. I can see how someone like Kim has self confidence…she is beautiiful…but for us average “joe’s” how are we supposed to develop that kind of self confidence when the world only looks at outward beauty and EVERYTHING is based on looks and size? I have very low self esteem and would love to get past that

  9. majority of people in the entertainment indusrty have no or very low self esteem that is why they spend thousands of dollars and countless hours in the gym with trainers, makeup artists and stylists and still suffer from lack of confidence.

    mostly they are in relationships that they cheat or are cheated on.

    Their job is to entertain us becuse they make tons of money doing so.

    Talk to a family member or a counselor instead

  10. don’t judge a book by its cover. these people in the entertinment world are all coping with lack of self confidence themselves that is why most drink heavily or take some sort of drug be it prescription and end up with one foot in rehab or therapy.

    i bet you have more confidence than they do.

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