Dear Kim,

You always seem to have confidence in yourself. I, however, lack confidence. Everyone says that I’m a pretty girl, but I feel that I’m not. Whenever I’m with my friends, they always get more attention from guys… and they aren’t “all-that” great looking. I’ve got personality, and they don’t. I always find myself comparing their body types to mine, because they are size zeroes, and that makes me think that guys always go for the thin ones. How can I stop comparing and start to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel more confident?

Sincerely,

Not Confident

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  1. laura  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    agreed. love ya Kim!

  2. Shelby  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Well put. :)

    Kim, I was just curious… Keeping Up With the Kardashians is filmed mostly at your mom’s house in Calabasas. Will we see your house in the next season? And will we get to see more of you and Reggie?

  3. Confidence is a virtue! As long as your confident thats all that matters! so u must be confident!
    TEAM KIM! WHOO HOO! LOL LUV YA DOLL!

  4. latasha  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    I understand where you are coming from not confident, I am not exactly a sizr 0 either, and I struggle with confidence everyday on some level, and what I have to remember is that in order for someone to love you, you have to love yourself first. Self love is most important, and once you have that, confidence will come,and then who will be able to resist you then??!!

  5. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    i never see these questions on our site..

  6. ^^^ She makes them up  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Duh

  7. Ellz   |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    So true! It’s so important to have a healthy self esteem, for girls especially! When you feel confident somehow your face glows, your smile is radiant, and that shirt falls into all the right places! Lol cheesy but guys really notice, and you will get approached so much more!

    P.S KIM-

    Stay strong girl! Hold your head up high & stay confident and sexy as always!

    XOXO Ellz

  8. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    i am phuckin jackass… i dont know what i am talkin about. ignore my comment above. please i beg. i have 6th grade education. EVERYBODY, I AM A COMPLETE IDIOT!!! DO NOT READ MY COMMENTS!!! I SNIFF STINKY-PINKIES FOR A LIVING!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

  9. Ashly  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    Thanks Kim! Hearing that from you makes it much easier to be confident.

  10. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 23rd, 2008

    when u doing your makeup video hun? please please post soon, u have been looking stunning as always :) love ya loads, dont listen to the haters! :) x

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