Dear Kim,

There is this boy and I like him… I was told that he was going to ask me out; but the thing is he has dated two of my best friends, he is rude and treats me different when were around people (but when we are alone he is really sweet)… I always forgive him and whenever I look into his eyes I get lost and I forget everything… Some things he says are deep and others are too childish. Please Kim—HELP!! What do I do?

Sincerely,

Lovechild In Trouble

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  1. Andrea  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    Yes, Kim is RIGHT! If he can’t do/say to you in front of people like he can do in closed doors, then he is absolutely wrong for you. There should be NO difference. No gray area. If he loves you, NOTHING will keep him from treating you like a princess. :-)
    Good luck!

  2. Andrea  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    Yes, Kim is RIGHT! If he can’t do/say to you in front of people like he can do in closed doors, then he is absolutely wrong for you. There should be NO difference. No gray area. If he loves you, NOTHING will keep him from treating you like a princess. :-)
    Good luck!

  3. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    how dare you ask kim while she defends reggie all the time that he is faithful! u should know better…

  4. Janet kims #1FAN  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    You are so right Kim ….people like that say theyll change but they never do The girl can do so much better, every girl out their CAN find someone better who will respect you …..You Go Girl!!!!!!!

  5. you dont need him  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    Kim is right you dont deserve to be put down and if he talks to you like that at all you deserve better. Anyways who wants to be with someone who has dated their friends it will eventually lead to some drama. Keep positive and you will find someone. Good luck and to kim goodluck to you and reggie you are so cute together

  6. Rosie  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    Kim is right. You should just leave him alone.. and when you do, he’ll like the chase but do NOT pick up his phone calls.. Theres plenty of guys out there.. Just brush ya shoulder off

  7. juspeezy  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    Kim is right, stay away. as a dude. ill let you in a lil known secret. Dude is frontin’ on you. He wants his cake and wants to eat it to. In public, your just a friend, at home your woman of his life??? c’mon, he is obviously safeguarding his ego in front of everybody else, who i assume runs in the same circles if he dated your 2 friends and now you. too close for comfort for a so-called playa to show love. you gotta gain upper hand, dont show desparation. HE DATED 2 OF YOUR FRIENDS!!! If he such a good guy, why is he not still wit em. ‘Show em how do it son…//don’t let him give you hard d*ck and bubble gum//think gucci purses, prada bag, sh*t for your son//’ – Jay Z

  8. Hi Kim :( I’m sorry that I’m writing now, when you have for us good news. But I know that you help people with their problems. I have problem now. I don’t have anybody.. Only you can help me now. :(

    I’m 17 And i love my boyfriend. He is 19. Once time we was kissing. And then he start undress me. I said no, because I wasn’t ready for this. He said: ” If you love me you will do this with me” But i said no, and than he said that I don’t love him and he go away :(

    What should I do now ??

    Please help me :(

  9. juspeezy  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    sounds like some h.s. mess anyway. ma’ you gotta play the control game wit a dude like this. we not gonna call him a man, or a dude, we gonna call him weenie. show no weakness, TOUGH LOVE BABYY!!!! if he cant handle it, he aint man enough for you!!! @ Fellas, grown men, if ’stick to your main entree, get over yah sides’. @playas, play on, but do it the righ way. if you can’t just be wit one, dont lie, keep it 100, let your women, and for that fact, women let you men, know whats really good. if they dont dig it, move on until you find one that gets down like that. i think all playas, should mess wit each other. stop messin over the good ones out there, messing it up for the rest of us normal folk. holla!!!

  10. nina  |   Posted on Jul 8th, 2008

    hey kim,

    I wanted to ask you about opening a clothing boutique.I am in the stage of deciding to open a boutique, and I wanted to see if you had any pointers and any tips on from start to finish.I have alot of research from logo hangers to to being confused about the buying process in the garment district
    HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    thank you kim k.

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