Dear Confused,
If your ex-boyfriend is not answering your emails, he probably just needs space. Sometimes it is easier to get over someone if they simply aren't around. Moreover, maybe it's just too hard right now for him to face you. Try not to take it too personally and bear in mind that we cannot control how other people act and feel... It is YOU who can take control over how you act and feel by trying not to let others' rule your mood. I know it is easier said than done sometimes, especially when there are heavy feelings involved, but I want you to know that it helps SO MUCH when you are in the driver's seat of your own emotions.
It sounds like he is the one who is confused,
Kim ;)
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Dear Kim,
My ex moved [away] and is not responding to my emails even though he told me to email. I don't know whether that means he hates me. I really don't want him to hate me. Does that make me clingy? This seems like a dumb thing to be worrying about but it is really a main focus in my life right now. I feel really hurt... Please give me some advice. Tell me what you think about my situation.
Thanks Kim,
Confused
If your ex-boyfriend is not answering your emails, he probably just needs space. Sometimes it is easier to get over someone if they simply aren't around. Moreover, maybe it's just too hard right now for him to face you. Try not to take it too personally and bear in mind that we cannot control how other people act and feel... It is YOU who can take control over how you act and feel by trying not to let others' rule your mood. I know it is easier said than done sometimes, especially when there are heavy feelings involved, but I want you to know that it helps SO MUCH when you are in the driver's seat of your own emotions.
It sounds like he is the one who is confused,
Kim ;)
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Dear Kim,
My ex moved [away] and is not responding to my emails even though he told me to email. I don't know whether that means he hates me. I really don't want him to hate me. Does that make me clingy? This seems like a dumb thing to be worrying about but it is really a main focus in my life right now. I feel really hurt... Please give me some advice. Tell me what you think about my situation.
Thanks Kim,
Confused
Jasmine says: | Reply
That's sound advice! I completely agree.
SC says: | Reply
Have you gals seen savaii_couture on EBAY... she sells a lot of kim kardashian clothing that she wears.. like herve leger!!! Its expensive but, CUTE!
Ms. T. says: | Reply
That's good advice to remember, that we can't control the way other people feel. We don't even know how they feel unless they tell us. Until then, it can be a guessing game. He can be missing you but is too busy to check his email, or he could no longer have feelings for you and only told you to email to be polite, but you have no way of knowing and are driving yourself crazy for no benefit to you.
I think you should stop thinking about him as hard as it is, tell yourself that he has not only moved away, but has moved on. If you hear from him, that will be a bonus, but obviously if he cared a lot about you he would somehow make time to contact you, so try not to think about him, and the fact that he is away should make it easier! Good luck.
And to the person who keeps posting saying they're waiting for the makeup video, as if they're entitled to it, you are very annoying and don't deserve to learn how Kim does her makeup. You pay a makeup artists thousands of dollars and learn yourself instead of clogging messages asking her how to like she is obligated to you. You're so annoying!
Keeping up with the Kardashians says: | Reply
Dear Confused,
I would take Kim's advice. Just like she said it's easier said than done but you'll get through it. You have the strength to over come this, just have faith in yourself. I would say surround yourself with fun, Positive, loving, family and friends to make time pass. Go out and buy yourself something that makes you look and feel good, have a night out on the town with your girls. There's so much you can do!
If this guy really loves you...he'll be back in your life, if he doesn't then look at it as a favor he did for you, plus he must of not truly loved you in the beginning, because only true love can last and find it's way back.
Hang in there!! Your not alone girl!!
Ms. T. says: | Reply
That's good advice to remember, that we can't control the way other people feel. We don't even know how they feel unless they tell us. Until then, it can be a guessing game. He can be missing you but is too busy to check his email, or he could no longer have feelings for you and only told you to email to be polite, but you have no way of knowing and are driving yourself crazy for no benefit to you.
I think you should stop thinking about him as hard as it is, tell yourself that he has not only moved away, but has moved on. If you hear from him, that will be a bonus, but obviously if he cared a lot about you he would somehow make time to contact you, so try not to think about him, and the fact that he is away should make it easier! Good luck.
Persian Goddess says: | Reply
ohh my gosh.. thank you so much for answering my question kim.. i am so grateful for your advice. you are right maybe he does need space. i am going to try and be not so sensitive. love you kim
del white says: | Reply
i think u should move on
del says: | Reply
um i think u should move on
Anonymous says: | Reply
kim,
still waiting for the makeup video!
GET A MOVE ON IT WOMAN!!
hugs
Anonymous says: | Reply
ooh that sucks! just let it go girl, there are more important things to think about and do! It's not like he's the last guy on earth who would love to have a new girlfriend! Or just try to have fun being single, it was some of the best times in my life!!!
Kiara says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
I love you and your sisters and i think your goregous. I have a big butt just like you and yess i do love my body, but i hate the rude comments about it and boys only coming up to me because of my butt. I was wondering how do you get past the butt remaks because its really annoying
love,
Kiara
Emily says: | Reply
Kim,
I am obsessed with the show, and even more so you! I mean that the least stalkerish way as possible! My dream is to move to LA & do something in the fashion industry. I do not know how to get myself started, I'm not yet graduated, but its coming very quickly and I'm terrified of not being able to fulfill my dream! I am very serious about doing so, and would love any insight you can give! I've done plenty of research, and have read about how you got started, I'm not sure that will work for me...but know I cannot keep having doubts! Can you help me~
Adam Walck says: | Reply
Kim i think you are gorgeous. I know that someday we will finally get the chance to meet face to face. Hey that would be a good idea for a show! A starstruck fan gets a once in a lifetime opportunity to meet his supermodel icon. Dont worry i'll try not to make Reggie too jealous. Think about it and let me know.
Alf Deff says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
I'm from Venezuela and consider myself a faithful follower of your program and your beauty, never so much delighted with my eyes how beautiful you are .. I would like to maintain contact with you hope not to spend too bad my comments, maybe I would not be your only fan or the only person that highlight your beauty, what matters is that I have managed to write what they always say to seeing in television ...
Nikole says: | Reply
Nikole says:
Hey Kim I never do this kind of thing email anyone like your self. i figured you never read this kind of shit anyway. But I was writing you to ask a favor of you I am trying to make up with my boyfriend for something i did a few months ago, We have been dating 4 years and i want to spend my life with him. I think with your help that would be great. If somehow you can email me write me with a autograph picture or if you could meet him I would pay you anything. This will really show him how far i am willing to go to make sure he knows i love him. Please let me know soon. thanks
Nikole
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