Dear Kim,

My ex moved [away] and is not responding to my emails even though he told me to email. I don’t know whether that means he hates me. I really don’t want him to hate me. Does that make me clingy? This seems like a dumb thing to be worrying about but it is really a main focus in my life right now. I feel really hurt… Please give me some advice. Tell me what you think about my situation.

Thanks Kim,

Confused

Comments 45

  1. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    ooh that sucks! just let it go girl, there are more important things to think about and do! It’s not like he’s the last guy on earth who would love to have a new girlfriend! Or just try to have fun being single, it was some of the best times in my life!!!

  2. Anonymous  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    kim,

    still waiting for the makeup video!
    GET A MOVE ON IT WOMAN!!

    hugs

  3. um i think u should move on

  4. del white  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    i think u should move on

  5. Persian Goddess  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    ohh my gosh.. thank you so much for answering my question kim.. i am so grateful for your advice. you are right maybe he does need space. i am going to try and be not so sensitive. love you kim

  6. Ms. T.  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    That’s good advice to remember, that we can’t control the way other people feel. We don’t even know how they feel unless they tell us. Until then, it can be a guessing game. He can be missing you but is too busy to check his email, or he could no longer have feelings for you and only told you to email to be polite, but you have no way of knowing and are driving yourself crazy for no benefit to you.

    I think you should stop thinking about him as hard as it is, tell yourself that he has not only moved away, but has moved on. If you hear from him, that will be a bonus, but obviously if he cared a lot about you he would somehow make time to contact you, so try not to think about him, and the fact that he is away should make it easier! Good luck.

  7. Keeping up with the Kardashians   |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    Dear Confused,
    I would take Kim’s advice. Just like she said it’s easier said than done but you’ll get through it. You have the strength to over come this, just have faith in yourself. I would say surround yourself with fun, Positive, loving, family and friends to make time pass. Go out and buy yourself something that makes you look and feel good, have a night out on the town with your girls. There’s so much you can do!

    If this guy really loves you…he’ll be back in your life, if he doesn’t then look at it as a favor he did for you, plus he must of not truly loved you in the beginning, because only true love can last and find it’s way back.
    Hang in there!! Your not alone girl!!

  8. Ms. T.  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    That’s good advice to remember, that we can’t control the way other people feel. We don’t even know how they feel unless they tell us. Until then, it can be a guessing game. He can be missing you but is too busy to check his email, or he could no longer have feelings for you and only told you to email to be polite, but you have no way of knowing and are driving yourself crazy for no benefit to you.

    I think you should stop thinking about him as hard as it is, tell yourself that he has not only moved away, but has moved on. If you hear from him, that will be a bonus, but obviously if he cared a lot about you he would somehow make time to contact you, so try not to think about him, and the fact that he is away should make it easier! Good luck.

    And to the person who keeps posting saying they’re waiting for the makeup video, as if they’re entitled to it, you are very annoying and don’t deserve to learn how Kim does her makeup. You pay a makeup artists thousands of dollars and learn yourself instead of clogging messages asking her how to like she is obligated to you. You’re so annoying!

  9. Have you gals seen savaii_couture on EBAY… she sells a lot of kim kardashian clothing that she wears.. like herve leger!!! Its expensive but, CUTE!

  10. Jasmine  |   Posted on Jun 2nd, 2008

    That’s sound advice! I completely agree.

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