Christy, (The following was first published on Thursday, May, 22)
Wow, I am so sorry about your loss. It is extremely hard to deal with losing someone so close that you love. The key is to find that peace of mind, knowing that they are in a better place. It takes time and everyone copes differently. It does get better in time. You just have to remember the good and not the bad. She is in a better place now!
Xoxo,
Kim
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Dear Kim,
I love you and your family so much! I saw your show today (LOL). Y'all are going to make Khloe go crazy! But it was funny and you're right -- she does need someone to share her life with... no matter what she says! LOL!
Well, I know you are so sweet and full of advice so... I had a sister pass away a little over a year ago. She lived a tough life and she eventually ended up committing suicide. It was so tough for my family and I just can't learn to deal with it even after a long year!! I know you had to deal with the loss of your father so I was wondering if you had any tips to help me with this??
Thanks and love you so much :)
Christy
















LeticiaMichaels says: | Reply
Hey
Kim,I'm sorry about your nana.I recently lost my grandma three months ago so i know how you feel.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
RaquelleLuBv08 says: | Reply
Hey beautiful!
My question for you is how was it for you when you 1st started going out with your friends? Like, did you have a curfew? And did your parents call you every 5 minutes? lol my dad is a sheriffs deputy and he keeps close tabs on me.
Lubv Ya!
Princess A says: | Reply
How do you write on kims problem page???Please tell me someone!!!!
Princess A says: | Reply
Hey everyone and Kim if you are reading-please can someone tell me how you write your problems to kim because I desperately need advise from her and I live in London so i can only get through to her this way.
PLEASE,SOMEBODY,HELP ME AND INSTRUCT ME ON WHAT TO DO!!!!!
Clea says: | Reply
Hey Kim,
I love your show. You and your sisters,and family are adorable. I was curious about where Kourtney got her bed from. I saw it in the episode that Bruce did his special apperances. As Kourtney was waking up from her bed of royalty I almost fainted. Absolutely awesome! Please tell me where I can get a bed like that or where she got hers. Thank you.
Love all your advice and fun pictures. God Bless your family
Clea
Kim says: | Reply
Hey Kim, Do you think you have the wisdom, experience or education to give people good advice? I think some of these questions should be answered by counseling professionals or people with the above credentials. The wrong advice or intervention could do more damage than good but good looking out. RIGHT...
Christine says: | Reply
Kim, what do you do that you have such a beautiful toned body. I am always on a diet and never loose weight. all i do is cardio. but it still does not work. can u share your secret. best regards
Verena says: | Reply
Hey Kim,
I am a big fan of yours..
I don't live in the US, I Live in the Netherlands Antilles.... This Is the proof that your Internationally known.. You guys are great, I really like the show...
It would be very awesome to meet you guys one day..
Take care doll..
Xoxo,
verena..
Rachel says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
First off, I don't mean to sound like a "suck up", but I really do think you are the most beautiful woman in Hollywood!!!
Secondly,
I REALLY need your advise on this one.
Hum, I am a 16 year-old Virgin, and lately i've been feeling very "hormonal", if you know what i mean. But i am too scared to acctually do anything with ANY guy, no matter how bad I may want to... What does it mean? And I REALLY like this guy... But, as in most situations, he is interested in another girl... Can you give me some flirting advise, and advise on how to win this guy???
And also, what do I do to get over my hormonal issue? PLEAS HELP ME!!!
Help Less.
Val P says: | Reply
To: S_lut KIM
Do yourself and the world a favor and ki11 yourself KIM.
Kim, I'll give you $39,200.99 to take those f_u(k1ng double-DDs out of your ass.
your a55 is fake, your br3sts are fake, your face is fake, and even your hair are fake.
There's no one more fake and unreal than you in all of Cali.
-Your body has more silicone than actual tissue mass.
*All YOU do is try to be like the s_lut_ty exconvict Hilton girl.
Anonymous says: | Reply
u rock and so does your family
jaycee says: | Reply
Hey kim! i am a huge fan. And i used to live in california and it is my absolute favorite, All the celebs are there and great shopping and beach and all that fun stuff. I really miss it because i live in SLC, UT now. I want to be a extra in a movie or be in a like.. Roxy model or something. I'm not old enough to be doing that huge modeling you do. I want to do something to get noticed. Help? Thank you! You rock love ya!
Anonymous says: | Reply
This is to the last comment posted by Amazzzed
How DARE you say that, it only makes you sound so jealous. Her sister commited suicide and you're telling her to commit suicide. You really don't care who's feelings you hurt do you?
If you dont like Kim, why are you here?
Amazzzed says: | Reply
God you b1atches are stupid. How dense do you have to be to ask this materialistic butt implanted bimbo her childish advice. The only thing good about your show was when mad TV did a hilarious skit of it.
I'll give you some advice remove all the silicone from your body so that it does not look ridiculously disproportionate. Even that black guy couldn't get his d1ck past her huge ass. Anyone with any intelligence knows that you are just a persian impersonating re_tarded wanna-be-celebrity s1ut.
Don't you b1atches know that she probably gets one of her assistants to reply to your imbecilic questions. This b1atch is too busy over-applying her makeup and doing lame sex tapes to respond to you and she doesn't want the world to notice how naive and shallow she is. Do yourself and the world a favor and ki11 yourself.
Confused and Lost says: | Reply
Kim,
My family cannot stand my boyfriend. This is because in the past he has messed up and hurt me. But he really has changed and we are even living together now. I dont want to lie to my family anymore but I feel that if i tell them that we are together i will lose them forever!
Please help
VAL P says: | Reply
Wow, Kim is a super s_lut. I dont get it what sort of relation is there between an armenian and a n1g_ger? I guess KIM is not worthy of the elite-class white (o(k.
And the reply to Christy was like a 3yr old advice to someone. Don't worry your sister is okay, she happy up there, where is this HAPPY PLACE? LOL
Despite of that loss B5 from Christy, she seemed more intersed in Kim's show and the m0r0n1c plot fixes etc than her grief process.
-GET OVER IT SHE GONE...
The problem is that Kim and her fans/friends intellectual capabilities are that of a adolescent. Thats the reason these people need helpers all their lives. W/0 these helpers they could'nt even do a daily chore.
I mean look at Lohan (she's a petty th1ef now)
-So people plese for the love-of-god stop praising these s_lut_s.
p says: | Reply
btw..i kno thats really straightforward and harsh news because idk the exact situation so i might be wrong but ill let u kno that im prayin fr her and that makes all the difference=)))))))))))))))))
p says: | Reply
heyy.. i dont want to be like a jerk or anything but someone who commits suicide isn't in a better place- religion wise
Persian Princesss says: | Reply
Ok so I don't do he whole leave a comment thing I just come on here to read kims updates and everything but I would like to say kim I love you your so inspiring I have a
big ass and I'm pretty thick and that playboy shoot inspired me alot and alot of people say I look like u but I can never look as pretty or sexy or hot exactly like you lol love your show
your sisters are amazing I love you kim dearly and robs such a cutie ok well be safe byee !
(wrong place to leave a comment like this but oh well sryy!)
Lost says: | Reply
Kim,
My best friend just passed away from a genetic disease that he's had since he was born. He passed away at the age of 26. I'm involved in fundraising for research and was wondering if you could give me ideas for raising money. I don't have the connections that you and Reggie do. I've been kind of stuck trying to come up with ideas lately.
Thank you.
jules says: | Reply
Chrissy,
Just so you know, you need to be patient and give yourself time to heal. one year is not nearly enough time. My son was 15, 7 years ago. He spent everyday with his cousin who was 3 years older. He idolized him. Wore his hair the same as his, and got good advise about girls, clothes. afterall a 3 year age difference is alot. that last day, they were together, played video games, watched movies and he even taught my son how to make a 3.point turn driving.,then they went back to his cousins where he would be sleeping over. then it happened. at 2:30am., my son was woken up by detectives., asking where his cousin was? they had found his car, headlights on, but not him. I drove frantically to pick him up, we could hear the helicopters hovering over the harbor. it was eery. when we got to the house, I made my son go lye down and I waited for the call. it was 8:30 a.m. they found him. He had died by taking his own life.
My son seemed fine at first, then 2 mos later, it came crashing down on him. He wouldn't go to school, he was moody, and getting rebellious. afterall, it was his best friend who died and he happened to be sleeping at his house. I finally got him into counciling, and he got to graduate high school by attending a class for troubled students. but he did it. He's 22 now, and I've gotten my son back. he works and has a great girlfriend. What I want to say, depression can creep in on you . It will take longer than a year before your completely healed. be patient.
God Bless to you and your family,
Jules
trucally says: | Reply
i lost my big sissy 6 years ago i know how you feel she was my best friend when i heard the news all i could say was no no no hoping for another answer but it never came and reality didnt hit until my mom pulled my sisters ring out of her pocket then i new she was really gone it took me three years to realize she not coming back i hope u deal alot better than i did good luck ....
YARALIN KILLIAN says: | Reply
Christy:
I was looking just around, and i dont even know how i ended in this page, but then i read what u wrote to Kim, and u know something, my sister ended commiting a suicide just 3 months ago, exactly what u wrote, and i cant learn how to deal with it, cause it just hurt like the day i got the new, write me back if u can. Thanks.
Yaralin@yahoo.com
YARA
Treybone says: | Reply
hey kim! was thinking mayb u guys should have Rob come up with some men clothing idea's for the Dash line Holla Back!TreyBone D.C
nik says: | Reply
can't keep anything private or closed...she even gave out personal info about her dad to some interview about how thin his legs were before he died. Disrespectful
D.G says: | Reply
I agree stoney, and she had also made a comment about how her dad's legs were so skinny before he died...who gives out that kind of info?...it's disgusting. Keep things private for god's sake! Especially because he died. I'm sure her father would be proud of her ass hanging out in every pic/video...now she's giving out exercise advice...oh my...she's overweight.
Stoney says: | Reply
Kim honors her father by making sex tapes that leak to the public, taking raunchy photos on a tv show for her lame ass boyfriend, and showing her t & a every photo op. That's how Kim honors the legacy of her father. He is doing flips in his grave. If you really want to know what BLACK people think of you and lame reggie, read BOSSIP.com. The African-American community ain't feeling you Kim. Put some clothes on, and do something to stimulate your stupid mind!
Stacy says: | Reply
Hey kim you look Great, ? i know this might sound wierd? or scary? but im a psychic? please contact me? theres meny things you need to know about?
Thanks
alexandria says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
Hello, i wanted to ask you in the ask kim section, i was reading this post about loosing someone, i lost my mother when i was very young, i have lost a few friends to suicide and some grandparents, my life hasnt been the easiet, what is somethings that cheer you up when you are down? Ive suffered from depression for along time now, im always up and down with my life, and i struggle with my weight alot, because im a bigger girl. I also feel because im bigger guys dont love me ..they want nothing to do with me I just cant seem to stay happy sometimes... i am a photographer in art school hoping to find something to do after i am done with school but sometimes i feel that i will fail, its hard to do things without a mother to guide you, do you have suggestions on how to be happy in life, where to turn sometimes and how to be glamourus if you face being a bigger girl ..thats in your genes. You seem very understanding and im sure you get alot of people asking you for advice, but i was wondering if you could help me
thanks
sometimes unhappy
alexandria
Alexandria says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
Hello, i wanted to ask you in the ask kim section, i was reading this post about loosing someone, i lost my mother when i was very young, i have lost a few friends to suicide and some grandparents, my life hasnt been the easiet, what is somethings that cheer you up when you are down? Ive suffered from depression for along time now, im always up and down with my life, and i struggle with my weight alot, because im a bigger girl. I also feel because im bigger guys dont love me ..they want nothing to do with me I just cant seem to stay happy sometimes... i am a photographer in art school hoping to find something to do after i am done with school but sometimes i feel that i will fail, its hard to do things without a mother to guide you, do you have suggestions on how to be happy in life, where to turn sometimes and how to be glamourus if you face being a bigger girl ..thats in your genes. You seem very understanding and im sure you get alot of people asking you for advice, but i was wondering if you could help me
thanks
sometimes unhappy
alexandria
Anonymous says: | Reply
dear kim,
my aunt died form prostate cancer a long time ago. everyone says i look juhd liek her when she was my age. i dont liek when pple say that or yalk about cancer bcuz i get even more sad & all the memories come baqk then ill start to cry i dnt liek talkinq bout this to my friends & family bcuz ill start to cry and i dnt want to cry bcuz ill start to think bout her all the time & see her in my dreams.then i start to think how hard it is on my little cuzin her daughter she was only 1 years old when my aunt died and i can never forget what she said to my mom " tia (aunt) is mami (mom) sleepinq :( it was so sad . how do yuuh stop yuuhre self from cryinq when yuuh lose someone yuuh care & love about ?
love,
Missinq someone
PrincessT says: | Reply
Im so sorry to hear about your sister Christy ,and your Nana ,Kim. My heart goes out to you and your families.
With time things will get better, as Kim said think of the good times.
One of my good friends past away 4 years ago,she fell into a river, and they didnt find her til 55 days later... I always think of her when i see something beautiful ,i think i managed to deal with the grief by thinking of how funny she was and supporting and beautiful in every way, she is an angel to me.
Your sister ,and your Nana Kim is in a much better place now, and both are watching down on you ,so make them proud and happy by being strong and a good humanbeing.
Mwuah
T
Melissa says: | Reply
Kim, I am soooooo sorry for your loss!!! You and your family are in my prayers!!! It is always difficult losing a loved one. Just know that you all have one more angel looking after you!
XOXOXO
Melissa
Melissa says: | Reply
Kim, I am soooooo sorry for your loss!!! You and your family are in my prayers!!! It is always difficult losing a loved one. Just know that you all have one more angel looking after you!
XOXOXO
Melissa
Jenny says: | Reply
I hope you and your family can find comfort as soon as possible. I wish you well.
Cindy says: | Reply
Kim, Were you driving in the city of Downey on friday night?? I could have sworn i saw you around 9pm. :]
Jennifer says: | Reply
Hi Kardashians:
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is always so difficult to lose a loved one, especially a grandparent. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Jessica says: | Reply
Hey Kim
So Sorry about your loss.. I know how it feels to loose someone close to you.. My grandfather passed away when I was 8 & here 17yrs later at times it's hard for me to still move on but you & you're family seem strong and you'll get thru it! Much Love always!
RR says: | Reply
Hi Kim. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts & prayers r with you & everyone else on this blog who has lost someone. I find the best advice in these situations is to keep busy & talk about your feelings as much as you can. Doing something selfless like volunteering helps as well. It makes you feel better helping others. Most of just pray to God to get through these difficult times. Best of Luck.
Anonymous says: | Reply
sorry to hear about your Nana Kim.
Persian Goddess says: | Reply
hi Kim =) i just really want to know how to ask you a question for "kim to the rescue" i just really would love your advice. you seem really understanding and sweet. please help me out. thank you kindly
tiffany says: | Reply
hi,
i am also very sorry for your loss.... i just lost my little brother at the very young age of 20 to suicide. this was just on august 2nd 2007. i know exactly the different questions and what if's that go through your head. It is a long road to recovery one i know i will be on for a long time to come and so will you. But you have to just stay strong and you have to just know that they are in a better place and are happy. And they dont feel the turmoil that they felt while here with us. we are the one's suffering now because we miss them so much. but they are better off where they are. just keep strong and remember the good times you had with your sister. remembering my brothers smile is what gets me through my days.
you are in my prayers~
persian Goddess says: | Reply
dear Christy..
sweetheart i'm sure it is tough. knowing that she is in a better place and that she is not suffering will ease the pain in which you are feeling. but you know what? even though she is not here physically she is still with you. If you ever need anything just give a shout out. take care
latinafan says: | Reply
You are welcome =) Persian Goddess.
Replying to Kim's blog: Losing someone is hard to deal with. My grandpa passed away 6 years ago and I miss him so much! I still can't believe he is gone, but I know he is in a better place.
Persian Goddess says: | Reply
to Latinafan... thank you so much for your advice. you are really strong and i hope to be like you one day. thank you so much honey God bless you.
Keeping up with the Kardashians says: | Reply
This is such a deep down to heart tough subject. Our family lost our grandmother (moms side), who was the soul of our family. With her reflection that still shines upon us, we keep that alive and celebrate her by keeping her close in mind and heart and through lots and lots of beautiful memories. My Grandmother died at age 65 and even though she lived a pretty long life, we know she had much more in her to keep going strong, she battled brain cancer and it was to powerful. we have so many great memories with her that when it comes time for a family gathering, we sit down and share each of our most cherished memory we have of her.
I'm deeply sorry to hear the loss of your sister, you can keep her alive in your heart and as Kim says, remember the good times and that she is in a better place. It has helped us as well.
As for you Kim, I admire you for being so strong about your Father passing. I couldn't imagine losing my father, he is like my best friend. Through your strength and beautiful soul you really are an inspiration to some of us, you have helped me to be proud of who i am, this is a whole different subject that I would like to share with you one of these days.
Thank you again Kim, for making an impression on our lives.
Always Love to you and the Kardashian/Jenner Family.
latinafan says: | Reply
PERSIAN GODDESSS,
I CAN IMAGINE THAT BEING RAPED IS A HORRIBLE MEMORY THAT YOU HAVE. I WAS MOLESTED AS A CHILD AND STILL UNTIL TODAY I HAVE TO BATTLE WITH DISTURBING MEMORIES OF MY FAMILY MEMBER MOLESTING ME. I HAVE NOT GONE TO COUNSELING, I GUESS BECAUSE I JUST HAVEN'T, BUT WHAT I WOULD RECOMEND FOR YOU IS TO DEF. TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT. IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE A PROFESSIONAL, IT CAN BE A FRIEND OF YOURS. ONCE I SHARED MY EXPERIENCE WITH A FEW OF MY FRIENDS AND GOT THINGS OFF MY CHEST IT FELT A LOT BETTER. I ALSO TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT IT AND HE WAS VERY UNDERSTANDING. AT TIMES WHEN I AM INTIMATE WITH MY BOYFRIEND I STILL HAVE FLASHBACKS, BUT SINCE MY BOYFRIEND KNOWS ABOUT MY PAST HE IS VERY SUPORTIVE. MY BOYFRIEND TOLD ME THAT I SHOULDN'T FEEL FUNNY BEING INTIMATE WITH HIM BECAUSE HE LOVES ME AND HE WOULD NEVER HURT ME. SO NOW I FEEL A LITTLE BIT MORE CONFORTABLE WITH HIM AND WHENEVER I GET THESE FLASHBACKS I JUST FIGHT THEM BACK. I REMIND MYSELF THAT MY BOYFRIEND WILL NEVER HURT ME LIKE THAT. IT IS HARD, BUT IT HELPS WHEN YOU SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH OTHER PEOPLE. THAT IS MY ADVICE. ALSO DON'T THINK OF A COUNSELOR AS A SHRINK. A COUNSELOR IS NOT A PERSON THAT SEES CRAZY PEOPLE. A COUNSELOR IS JUST SOMEONE THAT COULD HELP YOU GUIDE YOU AND SOMEONE YOU COULD SHARE YOUR INFO WITH IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE TELLING YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. SOMETHING ELSE THAT HAS HELPED ME TO GET THROUGH MY CHILDHOOD WAS PRAYER. GETTING CLOSER TO GOD HAS HELPED ME TO FIND STRENGH IN ME.
Nola says: | Reply
Kristy, I know it so hard dealing with a siblings lost. I lost me brother who I was close to. A part of me died with him. But It does get easier believe me. I've learned to deal with the fact,he will no longer feel pain.He is in a much better place. Hes with God .And one day I will see him again. And we'll be close again forever.
Persian Goddess says: | Reply
kim what would you suggest for the question i asked earlier? i know you are not a rape counseller but do you have any sugggestions? i really look up to you and anything that you suggest i know is coming from the heart. i will take your advice. thank you for being there kim.
MISS LOLA VITA says: | Reply
KIM WE MISS YOU!
WHERE IS YOUR DAILY BLOG? WE MISS THE DAILY PICS AND VIDEOS.....
has this site been hacked???
BRING KIM BACK
WE MISS YOU KIMMY
Tom C. says: | Reply
To Christy: Sorry for the loss! So sorry!
To Kim: My neighbor killed himself 2 years ago on Mothers day! It was a big loss for both his family and me! I knew him for possibly 12 years or more!
It still bothers me for what I saw! It was a horrific scene:(
I am happy to see you reply to such a touching and serious topic, such as Christys!
Losing a loved one is not a happy time!
All my regrets and prayers go out to Christy!
Tom C. says: | Reply
To Christy: Sorry for the loss! So sorry!
To Kim: My neighbor killed himself 2 years ago on Mothers day! It was a big loss for both his family and me! I knew him for possibly 12 years or more!
It still bothers me for what I saw! It was a horrific scene:(
I am happy to see you reply to such a touching and serious topic, such as Christys!
Losing a loved one is not a happy time!
All my regrets and prayers go out to Christy!
sharon says: | Reply
To Christy..extremely sorry for your loss, God bless
To Kim
my cousins are 4 sisters in their 20's and teens. the older 2 sisters have not talked to the 3rd sister for over a year and a half. even though i'm not their sister, my brother and i are extremely close to them and are basically fed up with their feud. their fight is over the same ol' sibling stuff, nothing major, but has just been so drawn out. any advice on how to get them talking again?
thanks! (ps, my family loves your show...probably because we are equally chaotic),
the mediator
Frankie says: | Reply
kim you are so right, "the key is to find that peace of mind and you just have to remeber the good and not the bad" last year 2 of my cuzzins passed away. one with heart failure and the other by a drunk driver. its sad but no matter what, we knew they were in a better place!
Christy keep yo head up, everything gon b ight! Also remember her actions shouldnt be your actions, take it in and learn from it. Bless your family and kim!
well, keep the advices coming kimlicious! youre such a great role model for all the females, and thats what we need around my area.
-Yo #1 long hair gutta boy
Frankie says: | Reply
kim you are so right, "the key is to find that peace of mind and you just have to remeber the good and not the bad" last year 2 of my cuzzins passed away. one with heart failure and the other by a drunk driver. its sad but no matter what, we knew they were in a better place!
Christy keep yo head up, everything gon b ight! keep the advices coming!
-Yo #1 long hair gutta boy
Ms. T says: | Reply
Hi Kim,
I just thought of a great idea for you -Why don't you make your own magazine? Call it Kim or K or something like that - tons of women want to get your beaut, makeup and fashion tips and even personal advice so I think you would do great with a magazine, rivaling Oprah. Maybe even your own talk show. Seriously! Oprah's for older women and Tyra's a little to psycho so you would be a cool, modern alternative...
D says: | Reply
im sorry to hear about your sister. it def. is hard to go on when you lose someone like that. hope the best to you and your family. i like to think my dad and my old coach are lookin down on me and watching me and everyone else they knew and good advice kim, smart lady.
Valeri says: | Reply
Christy:
I'm so sorry for your loss. Always remember that you are a better and stronger person today due to your sister's passing and any other situation you have lived through, whether you realize it now or not. I know that you would give anything to have your sister here with you, just know that she is with you and your family no matter what, even though you all can't see her. Live your life for not only yourself, but for your sister as well. Be strong and always stay positive.
Kim:
Great advice! Everyone does cope differently and it's great that we all get to give our different inputs in order to help out a fellow fan of yours. You are a great friend to all of us and I thank you very much for that. Keep staying sweet and down to earth. We are grateful for looking up to a celebrity that is actually human!
Persian Goddess:
I do not believe in therapy or counseling. Why pay a complete stranger, even if they have a degree, to listen to your problems? You have many relatives and friends that are there for you and have been there with you for your good and bad times in life. Trust them with your feelings like they've trusted you with theirs. Put your pride aside and speak up. If you don't speak up, don't expect anyone to listen. I've always believed this, because it's soo true. You must always trust yourself when it comes to talking to anyone about anything, especially when it comes to this unfortunate situation you have gone through. Get everything you want out about how you feel over this and any other situations you might want to speak up about, don't live life hiding it, you will only do yourself harm and you shouldn't. I wish you all strength and happiness for the future.
GOOD LUCK!
-Valeri
Valeri says: | Reply
Christy:
I'm so sorry for your loss. Always remember that you are a better and stronger person today due to your sister's passing and any other situation you have lived through, whether you realize it now or not. I know that you would give anything to have your sister here with you, just know that she is with you and your family no matter what, even though you all can't see her. Live your life for not only yourself, but for your sister as well. Be strong and always stay positive.
Kim:
Great advice! Everyone does cope differently and it's great that we all get to give our different inputs in order to help out a fellow fan of yours. You are a great friend to all of us and I thank you very much for that. Keep staying sweet and down to earth. We are grateful for looking up to a celebrity that is actually human!
Persian Goddess:
I do not believe in therapy or counseling. Why pay a complete stranger, even if they have a degree, to listen to your problems? You have many relatives and friends that are there for you and have been there with you for your good and bad times in life. Trust them with your feelings like they've trusted you with theirs. Put your pride aside and speak up. If you don't speak up, don't expect anyone to listen. I've always believed this, because it's soo true. You must always trust yourself when it comes to talking to anyone about anything, especially when it comes to this unfortunate situation you have gone through. Get everything you want out about how you feel over this and any other situations you might want to speak up about, don't live life hiding it, you will only do yourself harm and you shouldn't. I wish you all strength and happiness for the future.
GOOD LUCK!
-Valeri
M-ALQ says: | Reply
omg..im sorry for your loss..shes definitely in a better place..
fan from Bahrain says: | Reply
hey kim just wanted to tell you don't bother about the haters:
Never despise life's fieny trails..they are God's ways of bringing out the best in you.. always remember, you are like a Diamond..and more a Diamond is cut the more it sparkels..
Crystal Miami says: | Reply
Kim,
Good advice.... you are the best your web site is great great great I don’t miss a day going on it..... You have become a role model to me thanks for coming on each and everyday and posting its great I feel like your friend.....
About losing a loved one I know how that feels ... and like Kim said time heals everything you will always miss her and wish that she was still here but she is in a better place =0) hope everything gets better Christy...
Crystal
Persian Goddess says: | Reply
can anyone tell me how to move on from being raped? other than going for counseling? i don't want to explain how it happened to a shrink. that is just too much. please suggest something anyone?
Hello says: | Reply
You are right, everydoes grieves differently and people heal differently as well. One thing I have learned losing a very close person in my life is that time brings healing AND you have to keep teling yourself even when you dont want to, that they are in a better place. Think about whether you would want her to still be around knowing the fact that her life wasnt easy.... hope this helps!
hello says: | Reply
You are right, everydoes grieves differently and people heal differently as well. One thing I have learned losing a very close person in my life is that time brings healing AND you have to keep teling yourself even when you dont want to, that they are in a better place. Think about whether you would want her to still be around knowing the fact that her life wasnt easy.... hope this helps!
ahmed to christy says: | Reply
I hope that you will understand French…
Il est très dur de perdre un proche…
Tout ce que tu pourras dire n'effacera jamais ta peine, tu ne cesseras de penser à elle.
Mais le mieux que tu puisses faire, c'est de ne pas rester seul et de te divertir, bouger…
Si le mal te ronge, il faut que tu en parles à quelqu’un qui puisse être à ton écoute.
Cette personne sera comme une "ouverture" sur le monde, quelqu'un qui te permettra de t’aider, en pensant à autre chose.
Dans ce cas-là, la simple présence de cette personne fait encore plus de bien que tous les plus beaux discours.
Ta sœur, aujourd’hui, ne souhaite que ton bonheur… vis pour toi, vis pour elle…
streya says: | Reply
Im sorry about your lost..I love my sister and couldnt live without her.. but I agree with kim she (your sister) is in a better place, she is taking care of you and you family..
u have to be strong and move on.. and sure u sister is with u...
everything happen for a reason..
yen says: | Reply
Hey Kim great advice the best remedy is let time pass by! Kim I love your show!
streya says: | Reply
Im sorry about your lost..I love my sister and couldnt no live without her.. but I agree with kim she (your sister) is in a better place, she is taking care of you and you family..
u have to be strong and move on.. and sure u sister is with u...
everything happen for a reason..
Yessie says: | Reply
Hey... iu think you would make such a great friend... i would love to have you as one.. you are an inspiration to all young girls, always looking up to you on everything you do.. Love you and keep up the good work!
Kims #1 Fan--->Melissa says: | Reply
Wow, I could not imagine losing my sister. Bless that girl seriously. Good advice Kim.
Your site is kickin' ass lately w some really good posts! Especially when we are treated to more than one a day!
xoxo
♥Melissa