UPDATE:  My dad’s mom, my Nana, passed away Thursday and her funeral is tomorrow. I hear you, Christy, and I know all too well how you feel.

Dear Kim,  (The following was first published on Thursday, May, 22)

I love you and your family so much! I saw your show today (LOL). Y’all are going to make Khloe go crazy! But it was funny and you’re right: She does need someone to share her life with… no matter what she says! LOL!

Well, I know you are so sweet and full of advice so… I had a sister pass away a little over a year ago. She lived a tough life and she eventually ended up committing suicide. It was so tough for my family and I just can’t learn to deal with it even after a long year!! I know you had to deal with the loss of your father so I was wondering if you had any tips to help me with this??

Thanks and love you so much :)

Christy

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  1. Kims #1 Fan--->Melissa  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    Wow, I could not imagine losing my sister. Bless that girl seriously. Good advice Kim.

    Your site is kickin’ ass lately w some really good posts! Especially when we are treated to more than one a day!

    xoxo
    ?Melissa

  2. Yessie  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    Hey… iu think you would make such a great friend… i would love to have you as one.. you are an inspiration to all young girls, always looking up to you on everything you do.. Love you and keep up the good work!

  3. streya  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    Im sorry about your lost..I love my sister and couldnt no live without her.. but I agree with kim she (your sister) is in a better place, she is taking care of you and you family..

    u have to be strong and move on.. and sure u sister is with u…

    everything happen for a reason..

  4. Hey Kim great advice the best remedy is let time pass by! Kim I love your show!

  5. streya  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    Im sorry about your lost..I love my sister and couldnt live without her.. but I agree with kim she (your sister) is in a better place, she is taking care of you and you family..

    u have to be strong and move on.. and sure u sister is with u…

    everything happen for a reason..

  6. ahmed to christy  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    I hope that you will understand French…

    Il est très dur de perdre un proche…
    Tout ce que tu pourras dire n’effacera jamais ta peine, tu ne cesseras de penser à elle.
    Mais le mieux que tu puisses faire, c’est de ne pas rester seul et de te divertir, bouger…
    Si le mal te ronge, il faut que tu en parles à quelqu’un qui puisse être à ton écoute.
    Cette personne sera comme une “ouverture” sur le monde, quelqu’un qui te permettra de t’aider, en pensant à autre chose.
    Dans ce cas-là, la simple présence de cette personne fait encore plus de bien que tous les plus beaux discours.

    Ta soeur, aujourd’hui, ne souhaite que ton bonheur… vis pour toi, vis pour elle…

  7. hello  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    You are right, everydoes grieves differently and people heal differently as well. One thing I have learned losing a very close person in my life is that time brings healing AND you have to keep teling yourself even when you dont want to, that they are in a better place. Think about whether you would want her to still be around knowing the fact that her life wasnt easy…. hope this helps!

  8. Hello  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    You are right, everydoes grieves differently and people heal differently as well. One thing I have learned losing a very close person in my life is that time brings healing AND you have to keep teling yourself even when you dont want to, that they are in a better place. Think about whether you would want her to still be around knowing the fact that her life wasnt easy…. hope this helps!

  9. Persian Goddess  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    can anyone tell me how to move on from being raped? other than going for counseling? i don’t want to explain how it happened to a shrink. that is just too much. please suggest something anyone?

  10. Crystal Miami  |   Posted on May 22nd, 2008

    Kim,

    Good advice…. you are the best your web site is great great great I don’t miss a day going on it….. You have become a role model to me thanks for coming on each and everyday and posting its great I feel like your friend…..

    About losing a loved one I know how that feels … and like Kim said time heals everything you will always miss her and wish that she was still here but she is in a better place =0) hope everything gets better Christy…

    Crystal

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