for the wounded girl:
dont feel bad! i went through the same thing. what i did was i got busy doing the things i like and met guys that were interested in what i was interested in. so just go out and meet some good guys and dont worry about your friend. hope this helps!

Also what makeup do use I love your look we have similar skintones so any advice would be great thanks.Stay hot =)

Kim I love you your so gorgeous its sickening lol.But I was wondering what type of butt excersie you do?lol

Dear Kim,

Your a very beautiful woman, I love your show...love the way you girls dress. I had a question for you. Im a mother of a 15 mths old baby girl I use to have a pretty good figure. how do you keep such a good figure for yourself? i would like to know your secrets?

Dear Kim,

I am a single parent to a 7 year old. I am 27 years old also. I need help finding a man who is as sweet and caring as Reggie Bush and is willing to step to the plate and accept the role as a dad. I have trouble because my daughter's father committed suicide when she was 5 months old. Ever since I have not been able to find someone who really cares about us. I am very careful not to bring them around my daughter. A lot of guys tell me that I am wife material but they are not ready to be in that type of relationship. Can I have some pointers on how to catch a real man?

dear kimmy ,

Im going to travel by my self to maiami
and i have some naugthy plans like
geting a tato,partys... but i think that if my parents now about it they will freak out
our be very pisd of with me what should i do ???

luv you cutty !! kisses

Hey Kim, I'm Eva. I just wanted your insight on an issue that is relatable to you. I come from a middle-eastern background, and because of that, My parents prefer me to be with a man who is also middle-eastern. One problem...I'm not attracted to middle-eastern men. I've always been extremely attracted to black men, and always will be, and I've only ever dated black men. There's just something about the brothas that is too sexy to resist (I know you'll back me up on that one!) Was your family initially accepting of your choice of men? And how did you deal with it?

Sincerely,
Love is Blind

Dear kim,
my ex moved... and i am having a hard time getting over him. he was the only guy that truly understood me. i am 19 and he is 23. we had an amazing relationship and it had to end cuz he moved. i don't know how to start moving on. he never emails me anymore and it hurts sooo much cuz he said that we should keep in touch. plz help me.

Love Farzeen

dear kim,
you always seem to have confidence in yourelf.
i however lack confidence.
everyone says that i'm a pretty girl, but i feel that i'm not. whenver i'm with my friends, they always get more attention from guys..and they arent "all-that" great looking? and i've got peronality, and they dont. i always find myelf comparing their body types to mine, because they are size 0's, and that makes me think that guys always go for the thin ones. how can i stop comparing..and start to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel more confident?

sincerely,
not confident.

Well, if I was you I'm just gonna keep the game playing till I really see if he's interested in me and my friend.

Hi, Kim,

I wanted to ask a quick question. How did you come into fame so easily? Some people have it hard, very hard, but it seems like you and your family came out of thin air and were famous. I'm very glad that your family is noticed on TV!!!!

I'll be happy if I receive an email from u or I'll die cause I love u sooo much...

Thanks,

Aziz
ar810@hotmail.com

dear kim,
i am of a hundurian and belizian decent. however i do not have long hair and my nose is kind of big. i lack a lot of confidence and its not like my friends make me feel any better about myself. there is this girl at my job and she is a total bitch. She always brags about being conceited and educated on her myspace page and even though i shouldnt be reading it i just cant stop feeding into her. when i first came to the job she spoke to me and was really nice but now she doesn't speak to me at all and always seems as if she has an attitude. Everyone does anything that she wants and all the guys go crazy over her because she has a big butt. ii used to think nothing of her but now i think the world of her. i dont understand why she is so conceited( maybe because of all the attention she gets) but how do i stop wishing that i was her and just learn to accept myself. i know she probably looks down on me cuz she thinks shes better than everyone else. what should i do? and how do i gain more confidence in myself so i can show her that i am somebody too. i know it sounds pathetic but it really bugs me....i just want to be beautiful and successful but everytime i c her i just get down, cuz i know i can never compare to her. Do u think that she just puts up a front or could she really be that conceited...... she says she always gets what she wants....and u know what i believe her.

Hi Kim!!
I have a problem.Well im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for ten months. Lately i dont know what to do sice everytime i want to go out with my girl friends he gets mad. He even makes me chose between him and my friends. I dont know what to do Kim can you please please give me some advice.

Dear Kim,

I have this issue with make up, hair and working (making money). I'm the only girl child in a single parent family and I wish I had sisters like yours to help me with my decision making. I'm 18 years old and LOVE LOVE LOVE to be fashion forward like you and your I love clothes, make up (MAC) and accessories, but work like a dog just to get by and always try hard to get nice things with the amount of money I'm limited to. I always want to buy and try new things but find myself always short of money because of school payments, books, car payments and insurance. I see how great you are with making your own money to buy all of the things you desire and was wondering if you had any tips because at the moment I'm stuck as a nanny while living at home as a freshmen in college. I get good grades for discounts on car insurance and scholarships for school, but I just can't do it all and be fashion forward it seems. You're my ideal women and I look up to you and work so long and hard, but I come across issues, like my hair is dry with split ends and looks dull and needs a cut, or I have bags under my eyes and can't correct it that well with make up and people call me Indian (I'm puerto rican about your skin tone), I wish that I could spend a day getting tips from you about all this stuff like a total Lisa makeover day by you hahah but just a little advice from you would probably help me out a lot!

Love,
Trying hard, but struggling :/

P.S. I'm saving to buy myself a birthday present from DASH you're clothes are supper cute! :)

one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen thats you of course. i am an United States Marine and i would like to know if i could ever meet you... i hate to dwell but it don't hurt to ask.. please let me know...