One member of my site has been confronted with an issue that has definitely hit close to home for me in the past. I have learned how to navigate the situation when a loved one is not necessarily thrilled about my choice of boyfriend. Watch my video as I give advice on how to deal with loved ones who need to accept that you are dating outside of your race.

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  1. Sarah  |   Posted on Aug 25th, 2008

    I think Arab girl definetly has a point.
    Sorry Kim, your situation is VERY different from nz’s.
    Her parents are most likely not kidding when they say they are going to disown her. Your father already married outside his culture.

    Although I understand you advice, I don’t think it’s going to help in this situation. It can be, as Arab girl says, dangerous for her.

  2. ASHLEY  |   Posted on Sep 13th, 2008

    Your last name is Ian so that means your armenian but then yet you never talk about it or anything so are you ashamed of where you or your ancestors come from ? i bet you dont even know where it is i dont know just an opinion

  3. 90sz_baby  |   Posted on Sep 17th, 2008

    Hey Kim,

    I think u gave good advise about the dating outside your race !!
    Im Turkish(muslim) & I live in The Netherlands & Im attracted to black guys, its been like that for a few years now! my parents would never allow me to date or even marry someone outside my race but its all about you bein happy, I think ur not living for your parents your living for yourself. my parents still got them old values they hold on to while the turkish ppl in Turkey are much more modern!
    Im gonna follow my heart! & I hope I meet a good man who is going to treat me right! race doesnt matter !!
    thats how I feel about it! if ur parents wanna see you happy they gon have to let u make ur own decisions, you’ll learn from them
    I really appreciate the video Kim!
    there are a lot of girls struggling with this problem!

  4. sean  |   Posted on Sep 20th, 2008

    I love you kim ur my baby momma

  5. Rhodalyn  |   Posted on Sep 25th, 2008

    Whats da biggie??? a dick iS a dick and a pu$$y iS a pu$$y, love iS love and humans are humanS!!! I personally dont mind who i date, itS all bout who im attracted to!!! havin’ Said dat, i do fancy my black bwoyz more than i do other Races! I been Out with an english bwoy and a polish bwoy. my present boyfriend is black tho n he hot as hell!

  6. Anonymous  |   Posted on Sep 26th, 2008

    well kim i just wish i was your boyfriend.im not easily attracted to just any pretty face and a big but.but kim i dont know waht it is girl.theres something about you that does it for me/you are 1 incredible girl.i just love you to death.id challenge regie in a 40 or a boxing match or whatever i had to do for you to be my girl.wichobadself!!!!!!!

  7. George Rose  |   Posted on Nov 9th, 2008

    hi kim just stay sexxy ma. Love ya

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