A Kim Fan Writes:
Dear Kim,
I'm a good girl, and I'm honest and loyal. But somehow I'm dating two guys right now. Dan is very feet-on-the-ground and a hard worker on a great career path. He worships me. The other guy is a bit of a bum, but he's very into spontaneity. He makes me feel super alive!
Do I need to tell Dan about the other guy? The other guy doesn't really mind that I have Dan. I feel I should be able to have both these guys because they meet different needs. It's not like we're married.
What do you think?
Signed,
Double Trouble
Dear Double Trouble,I think that honesty is the best policy in situations like these. If Dan worships you like he says he does then he will be fine with your situation. He might react with upset at first, but he will learn to deal with it. But if you want my opinion then I would say stay with Dan.
He sounds like a great guy and it is important for a man to love u a little more then u love them. :)
-Kim
















Rhodalyn says: | Reply
To ''You people are pretty sad''
whatz Ur problem dude???, she's made a typing error So what??? I think some of u miserable peeps are just too sad to still be living! tell u what, Y dont u hang urself?
Anonymous says: | Reply
To the girl that wanted advise on the two guys. Hell men dat women at the sametime all the time. So y can't you. fuck them both they're probably using you anyway
Christine says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
I am 19 years old and I have been in a relationship for about four years. My boyfriend keeps talking about marriage. I told him a million times I am not ready to get married I am to young. I said give me four years so I at least finish college and hopefully have a well paying job. He still continues to ask about it and why I don't want to like I don't love him because I am not ready to get married. How can I tell him so he understands.
Thank you,
Not Ready for Marriage
P.S. You are gorgeous and I admire you 100%
Tyiana says: | Reply
Kim that was good advice! Personally i would stick with Dan, he may not be as outgoing but he has something going for him, cut it off with the other guy, he is a bum!
You people are pretty sad says: | Reply
Kim, you have bad grammar. "He may react with upset at first." uhhhhh.....you mean "he will be upset at first." But then again, I don't expect much from you in terms of intellectual spoken words so we'll forget about that.
As well as this girls problem, here's my two cents. You're f**king retarded (omit the cursing since this is public domain....) You're leashing two men and you want to call yourself a good girl? Hell I mean, sure you're young and you should go out and do stuff, but you're utilizing men in the most degrading way, for your own selfish needs, and you want to call yourself a good girl? Wow, I knew shit was happening but goddam! I didn't know people could be this stupid!
And as for kim's advice, she's totally giving you the gold digger advice (like she ironically is herself). Yea, stick with the guy that makes the money and you can sit on your fatass, sucking in the limelight and wasting space on earth. Cheers to you all bitches!
That's Ms Angel To You... says: | Reply
I can't believe this is an official website of Kim's... being in the public eye the way she is, I would have hoped that her techie guys created a website where posts were screened before viewing publically.
N F**Ker??? How rude!!!! Sad that people still think like that. Who someone wants to date is no big deal, and to make note of someone's ethnic background in such a manner shows how really ignorant people are. In this day and age, you have to be flat-out ignorant or very closed off to society and intellectual growth to still want to "stick to your own"...Who in the states is really 100% anything anymore, anyhow? We are all mixed with something... more importantly, race or ethnic background does not dictate the amount of class, education or integrity you have...or lack thereof as shown in some of these posts.
Anonymous says: | Reply
samuel j
"negro fucker" are you kidding? go get an education and stop polluting the world with your own filthy mentality. good luck...your hatred will destroy your short life..
jerryross says: | Reply
I'd be willing to bet a hundred bucks there's nothing wrong with Nosey's nose.
cowering says: | Reply
wow! did you think nosey was playin you kim? nosey seems worried about her nosey. in case, she really is, i think we care more about the feedback we hear. if the family, friends, or schoolmates didn't tease us, we'd do great! all surgery is serious. we all like flattering make up. practice with the new mineral kind, unreal great! good luck, if it was a sincere question.
Spirited Dona says: | Reply
i am worried about kemperkain. if you are being thoughtful, and you feel you are not moving a relationship, too fast, then here is the only thing that could be wrong.
all women are different.
i am sick a lot, yet, often when i ask people for help, at the store or from the store, on lifting 12 packs, detergent, etc., some men don't treat me like a womam, let alone a sick woman. i like a man who is giving. some chicks don't like a giver. and some like a giver till they got.
a good rule-- if she does something thoughtful back-- she's so into you. if she sincerely thanks you, she could be interested. give her time. if she screams at you for cooking, supper, run my friend, run! you are at the mercy of a b@tch. good luck. ps alec baldwin likes to bring milady breakfast in bed. he's had trouble finding complete love to. take heart!
Kim says: | Reply
Are you some sort of retard?
Nosey says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
As you know vanity is an 'epidemic' amongst women in today's society, well i have a problem, kinda...
I know i'm an attractive person, But i don't feel confident with my nose, I've always wanted rhinoplasty.
My nose isnt huge in length it's like a bulbous nose, I know if i do get rhinoplasty i will feel much more better about myself. I'm not doing this for anyone..this is for me just wnated to know your thoughts about it.
Yours sincelrely,
Nosey.
KemperKain says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
Just like most guys, I have got a small problem in the love deptment. No matter what I do, nothing seems to go right in the relationship. I cook for them and they get a little upset. I like taking care of the lady in my life. Can I get a females point of view on this matter please.
Yours Truely,
KemperKain
christine says: | Reply
kim,
this is more of a question then a comment..
i want to get surgergy to get a body like yours..
i need to know what size your boobs are...
if u could pass this info to me i would love it thanks
NZ says: | Reply
DeaR KIM,
I am from middle eastern descent, and i come from a some what conservative family. What troubles with me, is that i have fallen in love with a black guy, and to be honest that is all i am attracted too. However, my parents tell me that if i were to be with anyone that is not my culture or my religion they will disown me. and i don't know what to do! every time i see my guy, i have to take friends with me, or lie to my parents about where i am at. PLEASE give me some advice
Serena says: | Reply
Great advice Princess Kimberly!
Tiffani says: | Reply
Dear Kim,
So I really like this guy. And well he seems like a "playa playa" if u know what I mean. He's great though and we have talked a few times. I hear that he likes me and Im all he talks about. That's great ... but a bunch of other girls are after him and I dont want to end up getting hurt! What should I do? I really like him and I want to be with him, I just don't trust those other girls.
Signed,
Playa luva (: