Dear Kim,

My boyfriend’s friend is a moper and is always hanging around when I’d rather be alone with my boyfriend. My boyfriend says if I’d set his friend up with one of my girlfriends, then maybe he’d find something to do on his own. But he’s too much of a mope and I can’t put him on any of my girls.

How do I convince my boyfriend to drop this dead weight?

Signed,
Three’s a Crowd

Comments 64

  1. Good advice Kim, he needs to set boundaries with this friend of his and let him know that sometimes he just needs time with his girl. It is a touchy subject though, his friend might think you’re kickin’ him to the curb. Handle with care lol

  2. Farzeen  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    that is good advice. good luck!!

  3. Anonymous  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    Your not a down to earth person! Your so into yourself and I’m now turned off.

  4. Nala  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    how do ppl ask you these questions? i never see an email address.

  5. clearly cynical  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    Three’s a crowd,

    I think the advice Kim gave was good. I would agree w/ that, but at the same time i’m sure none of ur friends are setting the world on fire. I think u should be happy that ur b-f has compassion to still be friend w/ this dude even though he has a girl and let’s face it the moper best friend will probably be around longer than u will.

  6. Fab & Chic   |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    You can never dominate a man and tell him what to do. You do have to set boundries for yourself and your relasionship without being too demanding. If a man thinks your telling him what to do he will surely run for the border. If your man loves and respects you after you express to him how you feel about this situation.. ” because let’s face it men never know anything you have to tell them”. Than he should be willing to set aside a special time for just the two of you. Never trust that a man knows how you feel. Men are like babies you have to constantly lead them.

  7. Farzeen  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    i have the same question as Nala. how do we send questions to kim to answer??? somebody let us know.

  8. somebody special  |   Posted on Apr 21st, 2008

    well duh…she makes the questions up on her own! c’mon now, did you actually think that somebody would ask someone like her advice real life issues?? the only thing she’s good at answering is questions about makeup…and truthfully you can go to a makeup counter and they can answer THAT for you

  9. Nicole (South Africa)  |   Posted on Apr 22nd, 2008

    WHAT STRAIGHT GUY IS GONNA HAVE A BEST FRIEND AS A GAY? SERIOUSLY KIM YOU CAN COME UP WITH BETTER QUESTIONS. KIM YOU REALLY ARE AN AIR HEAD. EVEN HER MAKEUP TIPS WHERE NOT USEFUL. STUPID SH!T C*NT FACE.

  10. Nina  |   Posted on Apr 22nd, 2008

    @ Nicole (south africa)

    Read the post, she clearly isn’t referring to a drag queen, genius.

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