Dear Kim,

My best friend is the kind of girl who every guy wants to go out with. When guys act interested in me, how do I know they aren’t just using me to get closer to her?

Signed,
Wounded in the Wings

Comments 46

  1. .pOCkyo7  |   Posted on Mar 6th, 2008

    Well, if I was you I’m just gonna keep the game playing till I really see if he’s interested in me and my friend.

  2. breana  |   Posted on Mar 7th, 2008

    dear kim,
    you always seem to have confidence in yourelf.
    i however lack confidence.
    everyone says that i’m a pretty girl, but i feel that i’m not. whenver i’m with my friends, they always get more attention from guys..and they arent “all-that” great looking? and i’ve got peronality, and they dont. i always find myelf comparing their body types to mine, because they are size 0’s, and that makes me think that guys always go for the thin ones. how can i stop comparing..and start to feel comfortable in my own skin and feel more confident?

    sincerely,
    not confident.

  3. farzeen  |   Posted on Mar 8th, 2008

    Dear kim,
    my ex moved… and i am having a hard time getting over him. he was the only guy that truly understood me. i am 19 and he is 23. we had an amazing relationship and it had to end cuz he moved. i don’t know how to start moving on. he never emails me anymore and it hurts sooo much cuz he said that we should keep in touch. plz help me.

    Love Farzeen

  4. Hey Kim, I’m Eva. I just wanted your insight on an issue that is relatable to you. I come from a middle-eastern background, and because of that, My parents prefer me to be with a man who is also middle-eastern. One problem…I’m not attracted to middle-eastern men. I’ve always been extremely attracted to black men, and always will be, and I’ve only ever dated black men. There’s just something about the brothas that is too sexy to resist (I know you’ll back me up on that one!) Was your family initially accepting of your choice of men? And how did you deal with it?

    Sincerely,
    Love is Blind

  5. kamilla  |   Posted on Mar 9th, 2008

    dear kimmy ,

    Im going to travel by my self to maiami
    and i have some naugthy plans like
    geting a tato,partys… but i think that if my parents now about it they will freak out
    our be very pisd of with me what should i do ???

    luv you cutty !! kisses

  6. Dear Kim,

    I am a single parent to a 7 year old. I am 27 years old also. I need help finding a man who is as sweet and caring as Reggie Bush and is willing to step to the plate and accept the role as a dad. I have trouble because my daughter’s father committed suicide when she was 5 months old. Ever since I have not been able to find someone who really cares about us. I am very careful not to bring them around my daughter. A lot of guys tell me that I am wife material but they are not ready to be in that type of relationship. Can I have some pointers on how to catch a real man?

  7. Dear Kim,

    Your a very beautiful woman, I love your show…love the way you girls dress. I had a question for you. Im a mother of a 15 mths old baby girl I use to have a pretty good figure. how do you keep such a good figure for yourself? i would like to know your secrets?

  8. Stephanie Tejada  |   Posted on Mar 10th, 2008

    Kim I love you your so gorgeous its sickening lol.But I was wondering what type of butt excersie you do?lol

  9. Stephanie Tejada  |   Posted on Mar 10th, 2008

    Also what makeup do use I love your look we have similar skintones so any advice would be great thanks.Stay hot =)

  10. for the wounded girl:
    dont feel bad! i went through the same thing. what i did was i got busy doing the things i like and met guys that were interested in what i was interested in. so just go out and meet some good guys and dont worry about your friend. hope this helps!

Leave a Comment

You must be logged in to post or reply to a comment.