Dear Kim,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years and it seems like lately the fires have gone out. He just doesn’t try and impress me anymore, or do anything to make me feel special. What can I do to get him to stop watching basketball and take me out on a Saturday night for a change?

Signed,
Spark-less in Seattle

Comments 16

  1. Nathaly  |   Posted on Mar 13th, 2008

    I think you should try to have a romantic or fun night 2gether as a reminder of the old days but if he’s not up to it then u should just ignore him for a few days act uninterested too like for example not always answering his calls or not returning his calls immediately and see that he will feel that’s something’s up and will automatically get in panic since u r acting so unpredictable and will try to win u back since u r not giving him all the attention and when he asks u whats wrong u can take the opportunity to tell him what u want from him…maybe that will attract him to you again and make him want to do things to “make u fall in love all over again”

  2. Lorena   |   Posted on Mar 16th, 2008

    Hey kim
    great advice!!i tryed signing up but it wont let me iz there any other way to sign up!!email me pleeze!!luv ya!!

  3. Hey Kim….i have a question. Im 19 and there is this guy in my life that i cant get over. I have liked him since i was in the 8th grade and now im a freshman in college and i still can’t get over him. He knows how i feel that im basically in love with him. When he left for school back in August i thought i was going to be able to get over him and i started to until he started callin me and tell me he missed me and he wanted to see me when he came back from school. That just brought back feeling that took me forever for me to get over. Now he still doesnt want a relationship and i do and i just really want to know how can i get over him because i dont want to keep getting hurt and crying over him. And as long as he is constantly calling me and things i know it is going to be extremly hard for me to let him go. Kim, what should i do?

  4. Cynthia J. C.  |   Posted on Jul 25th, 2008

    Hey Kim wzup, how you doin. I was just on mediaTakeOut and one of their headlines say that you and Reggie is calling it quits it that true. I hope not because I luv you guys together ya’ll look good. please let me and all your other friends know. much luv Cynt.

  5. Dayami  |   Posted on Sep 14th, 2008

    KIM,

    WHAT IS YOUR REAL MYSPACE?? THERE ARE SO MANY! and they are all supposably you

  6. Hey Kim
    Me and my Fiance have been together for 4 years and we’re in the process of getting a house together but he’s driving me crazy we tend to argue about everything now. What can I do to not to mix the stress with buying a house and our relationship

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